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An attorney in a family law case serves two key roles for you: educator and advocate. They guide you through legal processes, explain options clearly, and protect your interests while helping you make informed decisions that support your family’s needs. Understanding the Legal Landscape Family law can feel confusing with its complex rules, forms, and deadlines. Your attorney helps you understand your options, whether you are considering a Collaborative Divorce, negotiating child custody, or addressing property division and financial matters. By explaining each step clearly and how it affects you and your spouse, your attorney helps you make informed decisions rather than reacting under pressure. They also help you understand long-term consequences. For example, agreements on finances, property, or support can have implications for years…

In a Collaborative Divorce, you and your spouse choose a team of divorce professionals to help you resolve your divorce privately and respectfully. You each hire your own collaboratively trained attorney, select a divorce coach, a financial professional and child specialist if needed. You meet as a team to address parenting, finances, and any urgent concerns. When you reach a final agreement, the documents are drafted, reviewed, signed and then filed with the court for final approval. Step 1: Choose a Collaborative Attorney The first step in a Collaborative Divorce is finding a Collaborative Divorce attorney you feel comfortable with and want to work with. If your spouse already has a collaborative attorney, the two attorneys will begin talking about how the Collaborative Divorce process…

Even the simplest divorce can create costly mistakes if you go through it alone.  A family law attorney will protect your rights, help you make sound decisions, and prevent problems that could surface years later.   The short-term savings on representing yourself can end up costing you more in legal fees over the long-term. Emotions Make It Hard to Think Like a Business Deal Divorce is both legal and emotional. When you try to represent yourself, emotions can take over and cloud your judgment. You may agree to something just to get it over with, or you may refuse to compromise when a fair settlement is possible. An attorney gives you an objective perspective and helps you focus on the legal and financial issues that will…

Avoiding court during your divorce will save money because you reduce attorney time, avoid court-driven deadlines, and limit the conflict. Mediation and Collaborative Divorce keep your divorce discussions focused on solutions instead of arguments, which lowers the overall cost and helps you reach agreements more efficiently. Why the Court Process Increases the Cost of a Divorce When you file for divorce in court, the process immediately becomes more expensive. Deadlines start running the moment documents are filed. Your attorney must prepare pleadings, respond to filings, and follow court requirements, even while you are still trying to settle your case. This creates a situation where you pay for both preparation and negotiation at the same time. Court filings also increase tension. When one side files something…

St. Louis Collaborative Divorce Attorney Jennifer Piper was recently a guest featured on The Respectful Divorce podcast discussing the upcoming Divorce With Respect Week® initiative and the no-court Collaborative Divorce process. The Respectful Divorce Podcast is hosted by Tim Crouch and highlights divorce professionals discussing the different options for divorce. “My parents had a terrible divorce and I knew how that affected me as a child,” said Piper. “I was dragged to the courthouse and it wasn’t pleasant. It still affects me to this day and I don’t recommend it for anyone. What I do recommend is the Collaborative Divorce process because it’s not designed to fight, the clients are more involved, and you don’t have to deal with court and your private information being…