How Long Does Mediation Take?~ 3 min read

One of the most common questions about Mediation is, “How long will this take?” There isn’t a simple answer. Mediation timelines can vary greatly depending on several factors. Here’s what you need to know.

3 Factors That Influence Mediation Time

1. The Number of Issues to Resolve
   The more issues you and your spouse need to resolve, the longer Mediation will likely take. If you have children, property, and financial matters to discuss, each of these topics will require thorough consideration. For instance, determining child custody and school arrangements can be complex, particularly if you haven’t gathered all the necessary information in advance.
2. Preparedness and Cooperation
   Your willingness to work together and the level of preparation you bring to each session are critical. If you come to the table with all required documents, such as financial records, and have completed any tasks assigned by the mediator, the process will move more smoothly. On the other hand, if you need to go back and gather more information multiple times or are not sharing the information in a timely manner, this can delay progress.
3. Scheduling and Availability
   The availability of you and your spouse can also impact how long Mediation takes. If you and your spouse have conflicting schedules, or if one party is intentionally delaying the process, it can be difficult to set up meetings. This can extend the timeline significantly, as meetings are often spaced out over weeks or even months.

Why You Shouldn’t Rush Mediation

While you may be eager to finalize your divorce and move on, rushing through Mediation is not advisable. Speeding through the process can lead to oversights, such as forgetting to discuss important issues or making hasty decisions that you might regret later. It is important to take the time to think about each decision carefully and consult with your attorney when necessary. By doing so, you’ll ensure that the final agreement is well-considered and in your best interest.

The Role of the Mediator

Your mediator will guide you through the process, but ultimately, the timeline depends on you and your spouse. Mediators can usually schedule meetings within a few weeks, but they rely on you to come prepared and ready to collaborate. If there are complex issues, such as the need for a business valuation, separate property, or special considerations for children, these can potentially extend the process.

Conclusion

Mediation is a flexible process, and its duration depends largely on how prepared and cooperative you and your spouse are. While it can be tempting to rush through it, taking the time to gather necessary information, think through decisions, and consulting with professionals will lead to better outcomes. Remember, a well-considered agreement is worth the time it takes to reach it.

Contact Family Ally Today

If you’re ready to start the Mediation process or simply want to learn more about how it could work for you, Family Ally is here to help. Our experienced team will guide you through every step, ensuring you’re prepared and informed. If you have questions or need legal assistance regarding divorce or any other family law matter, please contact Jennifer Piper at 314-449-9800 to schedule a consultation. 

Family Ally is located at 130 S. Bemiston Ave., Suite 608, St. Louis, MO 63105.