Divorce: How to Control Your Future~ 3 min read
The thought that someone else making decisions about your life in your divorce can be overwhelming. However, there are ways to take control of your future during the divorce process to ensure that the decisions made are tailored to your unique situation. By focusing on out of court options such as Mediation and Collaborative Divorce, you can avoid leaving your fate in the hands of a judge who is not fully understanding of your family’s needs.
Why Settling is Key
If you want to control your future in a divorce, the best way to do so is through a settlement of your case. Whether it’s an informal discussion, a settlement at the courthouse, Mediation, or Collaborative Divorce, settling gives you more control over the outcome. If you end up in court, not only could it cost you more time and money, but your case details can become public. The judge’s decision is likely to be based on standard forms with minimal adjustments, which may not fit your family’s specific needs.
The Power of Mediation and Collaborative Divorce
Mediation and Collaborative Divorce offer you the opportunity to design a plan that fits your family. Unlike court orders, which are often rigid and generic, these processes allow for detailed and personalized agreements. For example, if your child has special needs, you can create a plan that includes special language tailored to their care. You can also address unique aspects like travel arrangements, extracurricular activities, safety concerns, and specific responsibilities between parents, ensuring that the agreement reflects your family’s reality.
Financial Control with a Neutral Professional
In a Collaborative Divorce, a neutral financial professional plays a vital role in helping you to visualize your financial future. They provide insights into which assets are best for you, ensuring that you make informed decisions. For instance, you might want to keep the family home, but the financial expert can help you understand if that is a viable option in the long run. They will also assist with budgeting, helping you to understand how much money you’ll need to secure your future and your children’s well-being. This guidance is invaluable, especially if you’re unfamiliar with managing finances on your own.
Your Future, Your Decisions
By choosing to settle through Mediation or Collaborative Divorce, you take control of your future instead of leaving it in the hands of a judge. These processes allow you to create a customized plan that fits your family’s needs, giving you peace of mind and ensuring that your voice is heard in the decisions that matter most.
At Family Ally, we believe in empowering you to take control of your divorce. Our team of experienced professionals is here to guide you through the process, ensuring that your future is in your hands. If you have questions or need legal assistance regarding divorce or any other family law matter, please contact Jennifer Piper at 314-449-9800 to schedule a consultation.
Family Ally is located at 130 S. Bemiston Ave., Suite 608, St. Louis, MO 63105.
