6 Things to Do ASAP After Your Divorce is Over~ 3 min read

After your divorce is final, there are important tasks to take care of right away, such as updating titles, changing beneficiaries, handling retirement accounts, reviewing insurance, and meeting with a financial advisor.

When your divorce is finalized, it may feel like a huge weight has been lifted. However, the court order is only part of the process. There are still practical steps you need to take to protect your finances, update your records, and set yourself up for the future. Taking care of these tasks right away can prevent problems and give you peace of mind.

Once your divorce is finalized, make sure all property is correctly titled in your name. This includes vehicles, homes, and tax records. In Missouri, you may need to use a gift affidavit for vehicles and take your divorce decree to the Department of Revenue or county office to complete the change. Do not assume these updates will happen automatically.

Many people forget to update their beneficiaries after divorce. Review retirement accounts, life insurance policies, and other assets to make sure the right people are listed as your beneficiaries. If you still want your former spouse listed, you may need to reaffirm it. It is also a good idea to review your will, powers of attorney, and other estate planning documents so your wishes are current.

If your divorce involved dividing retirement funds, you may need a special order, such as a Qualified Domestic Relations Order, to complete the transfer. Without it, the division cannot be enforced. Confirm that these documents have been prepared and filed so you receive what you were awarded.

If you or your children are changing names after the divorce, it is best to take care of that right away. For yourself, you may need to update your Social Security card, driver’s license, bank accounts, and other legal documents. For children, you may need to send the court order to the state, so their birth certificates are updated. Delaying this step can cause problems later with school enrollment, medical records, and other important matters.

Health, auto, and homeowner’s insurance should be updated quickly. If your spouse is no longer on your health insurance, or if your children’s coverage needs to change, do this right away to avoid unnecessary fees. Car insurance and home policies should also reflect your new status.

Divorce changes your financial life dramatically. Meeting with a financial advisor will help you create a new budget, manage retirement savings, and plan for the future. If you shared an advisor with your spouse, you may decide that you want to find someone new.

The end of your divorce is the beginning of a new chapter. Family Ally can help you take the right steps now, so you feel secure moving forward. Contact Jennifer Piper at 314-449-9800 to schedule a consultation.

Jennifer Piper

Jennifer R. Piper is a family law attorney, mediator, and parenting coordinator with more than 20 years of experience serving families in the St. Louis area. She is certified as a Guardian ad Litem and frequently appointed by courts to represent children in high-conflict cases. Jennifer is a former Chair of the Family and Juvenile Law Section of the Bar Association of Metropolitan St. Louis and an active leader in local and state bar organizations.
Her professional recognition includes being named to The Best Lawyers in America® (2017–2025), Missouri Super Lawyers (2021–2024), and receiving a Women’s Justice Award from Missouri Lawyers Weekly. Jennifer also holds an AV Preeminent rating from Martindale-Hubbell. She regularly speaks on family law topics and has helped shape family court procedures through her service on multiple committees.

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