How to Cope with Divorce: 8 Simple but Effective Strategies to Move On~ 2 min read
Divorce can be an intensely difficult experience. It is often accompanied by sadness, guilt, and anger. It is a painful transition that can leave many feeling hopeless and helpless. However, many effective strategies can help you cope with divorce and move forward with your life. Here are 8 simple but effective strategies to help you cope with divorce and move on.
The first and perhaps most important divorce tip is to take care of yourself. Make sure you are eating well, exercising regularly, getting enough rest, and engaging in self-care activities that bring you joy. Taking good care of your physical and mental health will help you to cope with the stress and hardship of divorce.
Another divorce tip is to reach out to your support system. Connecting with family and friends during this time can help you to feel less alone. Talking to a therapist or counselor can also be beneficial. A professional can provide valuable insight and guidance.
It is also important to be mindful of your emotions. Acknowledge them and allow yourself to feel them. It’s ok to be sad, angry, frustrated, and scared. Don’t try to push these feelings away, but rather allow yourself to process them.
Rather than wallowing in the pain of your divorce, it can be helpful to focus on the present. Spend time focusing on the here and now. Spend time doing activities you enjoy, such as going to the movies, taking a yoga class, or going for a walk.
It can also be helpful to develop a new routine. Having a plan and a routine can provide structure and help you to move forward productively. Spend time focusing on yourself and your goals.
Another divorce tip is to focus on forgiveness. This doesn’t necessarily mean forgiving your ex, but rather forgiving yourself for the choices you made and for the pain you are feeling.
Finally, it can be useful to focus on being kind to yourself. Treat yourself with compassion and understanding. Remind yourself that you are doing the best you can in an incredibly difficult situation.
Divorce can be a difficult, emotionally taxing experience. But with the right strategies, it is possible to cope with the divorce and move on with your life. Take care of yourself, reach out to your support system, be mindful of your emotions, and focus on forgiveness. These divorce tips can help you to cope with divorce and move forward with your life. For additional help, reach out to your counselor or attorney.
Jennifer R. Piper attended the University of Missouri-Columbia where she earned a B.A. in political science, she then went on to receive her law degree from Saint Louis University School of Law.
As an attorney, Jennifer has been distinguished by Missouri Lawyers Weekly as a Rising Star, Up and Coming Lawyer; she has been named to The Best Lawyers in America® 2017-2023 in the practice area of Family Law. Ms. Piper also recently received a Woman’s Justice Award from Missouri Lawyers Weekly in 2019 and recognized by Missouri Super Lawyers for 2021-2023.
Bar Admissions
Missouri, 2001
U.S. District Court Eastern District of Missouri, 2001
Illinois, 2002 (currently inactive)