Divorce: The Emotional and Financial Costs~ 2 min read
You likely feel hurt, angry, or even betrayed during the process of your divorce; but beware your emotions can make the entire divorce process more expensive. Additionally, Judges notice emotional behavior and it can influence their decisions about custody, property division, or even legal fees.
Decisions That Cost More Than Money
The emotional side of divorce affects more than your bank account. If you become too attached to a house, a business, or other physical property, you might make choices that do not serve your future well-being. For example, keeping a house, you cannot afford or refusing to sell an asset out of spite can leave you financially unstable after the divorce. Emotionally driven decisions can also affect your relationships with your children or your ability to co-parent effectively.
How a Calm Mindset Helps
A practical approach to your divorce does not mean ignoring your emotions. It means recognizing them and choosing not to let them lead your decision making. Many people benefit from working with a counselor during this time. A counselor can help you process what you are going through without letting those feelings affect legal or financial decisions. This can help you communicate more clearly, focus on your future, and avoid costly setbacks.
Better Outcomes Through Cooperation
Collaborative Divorce or Mediation are processes that can give you and your spouse more control over your divorce and often lead to better agreements. These processes are also more private and less expensive than going to court. However, they require a willingness to listen, consider options, and stay focused on goals rather than reacting emotionally.
Contact Family Ally
At Family Ally, we work with clients who want a more thoughtful and steady approach to divorce. If you are looking for guidance and want to keep the process as efficient and respectful as possible, we are here to help. Contact Jennifer Piper at 314-449-9800 to schedule a consultation and take the next step toward a solution that works for you and your family.
Family Ally is located at 130 S. Bemiston Ave., Suite 608, St. Louis, MO 63105.
