Why Is January the Start of Divorce Season?~ 2 min read
January is often considered the unofficial start of divorce season, and there’s a good reason for it. After months of holiday gatherings, family events, and the stress of the season, many people feel that it is time to make significant changes in their lives come January. If you’ve been unhappy in your marriage, waiting until after the holidays to start the divorce process can offer a sense of relief. With a new year comes new possibilities, and many see it as the right time to begin the next chapter of their lives.
The Holidays are Over
For many, the holiday season is a time for family gatherings and celebrations. Even in difficult relationships, people often choose to delay decisions like divorce to preserve the peace during the holidays. Whether to avoid upsetting the children or extended family or to prevent holiday conflicts, couples often hold off on filing for divorce until January. Once the new year begins, however, they feel freer to move forward without disrupting cherished family traditions.
Financial Considerations
The end of the year can be extremely expensive. Between holiday gifts, travel costs, and other seasonal expenses, November and December can strain finances. When those bills come due in January, it adds another layer of pressure which often adds to the decision to move forward with divorce.
Strategic Planning
Many people use the months leading up to January to prepare for divorce. They consult with attorneys, research their options, and gather important documents like tax returns and bank statements. This preparation not only streamlines the divorce process but also makes sure they are ready to act when the holidays are over.
If you’re considering Mediation or a Collaborative Divorce, early preparation helps to get things started in a timely manner. These processes for divorce involve assembling a team of professionals, and the increased demand in January can make it challenging to schedule initial consultations.
A New Year, A New Start
For many, the start of a new year represents a clean slate. The desire to start fresh often extends to personal relationships. New Year’s resolutions empower taking control of your future and to make decisions that you may have been putting off.
Contact Family Ally
If you’re considering divorce in the new year, now is the time to prepare. Gather your paperwork, research your options, and consult with professionals to help you start the new year in a positive way. At Family Ally, we’re here to help guide you through the divorce process. Contact Jennifer Piper at 314-449-9800 to schedule a consultation.
Family Ally is located at 130 S. Bemiston Ave., Suite 608, St. Louis, MO 63105.
