Recommendations About Using Social Media During Your Divorce~ 2 min read

One of the best things you can do for yourself while going through a divorce is to minimize your social media activity. Anything you post online can potentially be used as evidence in your divorce case. Photos of expensive dinners, vacations, or new purchases might raise questions about your financial situation, which could impact alimony or child support negotiations. Even seemingly innocent posts can be misinterpreted, so it’s best to stay off social media as much as possible. Divorce brings a lot of emotional stress, and social media can make things even more complicated if you’re not careful.

Here are some additional tips for managing your online activity while going through the divorce process.

Avoid Discussing Your Divorce

Never post about your divorce on social media. Venting about your spouse or sharing details of your case can backfire. Not only could these posts be used against you in court, but they may also harm your relationship with your children if they come across negative comments. Remember, even if your kids aren’t following you online, others might share your posts with them.

Do Not Delete Your Accounts

While it may be tempting to delete your social media accounts entirely, doing so could be considered destroying evidence, especially if your posts are relevant to your divorce. Instead, it’s better to leave the accounts alone, but refrain from posting anything new during the divorce process.

Be Cautious with Other People’s Posts

Even if you’re careful about what you share, you should also be aware of what others post about you. A well-meaning friend or family member might tag you in a photo or post something that could be harmful to your case. It’s a good idea to ask your close contacts to avoid tagging or mentioning you until your divorce is over.

Think Long-Term

Even after your divorce is complete, you should remain cautious about your social media activity. If your ex-spouse decides to modify child support or alimony in the future, posts showcasing your lifestyle could become evidence. Maintaining discretion is a smart way to protect yourself.

The safest course of action is to go dark on social media during your divorce. The less you post, the fewer problems you could face in court or with your family.

Contact Family Ally

If you need guidance on how to divorce, Family Ally is here to help. Our team will support you every step of the way, ensuring that your legal journey is as smooth as possible. Contact Jennifer Piper at 314-449-9800 to schedule a consultation. 

Family Ally is located at 130 S. Bemiston Ave., Suite 608, St. Louis, MO 63105.