Modifying child support

How Long Does It Take To Modify Child Support?~ 2 min read

The process of modifying child support modification can be frustrating, especially if you are facing an urgent financial change. Understanding the timeline and what factors influence it can help you better prepare and manage expectations.

On average, the process of modifying child support can take anywhere from six months to a year and a half. In some cases, it might take even longer. This range is broad because the duration depends on the specifics of each case.

  1. Custody Issues: It is not uncommon for a request to modify child support to also open discussions about custody. If both issues are to be addressed, the process can become more complex and time-consuming.
  2. Level of Cooperation: The speed at which you can get a modification approved is influenced by how cooperative you and your ex-spouse are. If you both are willing to work amicably through mediation or collaborative processes, the modification can be completed much faster and at a lower cost. However, if there is disagreement or if one party is uncooperative, the process can drag on.
  3. Complexity of Finances: If you are both straightforward W-2 wage earners, the modification can be relatively simple. However, if your or your ex have more complex financial situations, such as owning a business or having irregular income, it can complicate the process.
  4. Transparency and Honesty: The process will take longer if either party hides documents or is not fully transparent about their finances. Full cooperation and honesty are part of a timely resolution.

Several situations might necessitate a modification of child support, including:

  • Job Loss or Change: If you’ve lost your job or experienced a significant change in your income, you may want to modify your child support payments to reflect your new financial reality.
  • Increased Expenses: Rising costs due to inflation, increased educational or health needs of a child, or other new expenses can be a valid reason to seek modification.
  • Changes in Circumstances: Life changes such as a new health issue that affects your ability to work or increases your expenses might also justify a modification.

Modifying child support is a complex and lengthy process, but understanding the factors that influence the timeline can help manage your expectations. If you’re considering a modification, the key to a faster resolution lies in cooperation, transparency, and a willingness to work amicably towards a fair solution.

If you need assistance with modifying child support, Family Ally is here to help. Our experienced team is dedicated to guiding you through the process with compassion and expertise. If you have questions or need legal assistance regarding a child custody modification, divorce or any other family law matter, please contact Jennifer Piper at 314-449-9800 to schedule a consultation. 

Family Ally is located at 130 S. Bemiston Ave., Suite 608, St. Louis, MO 63105.

Jennifer Piper

Jennifer R. Piper is a family law attorney, mediator, and parenting coordinator with more than 20 years of experience serving families in the St. Louis area. She is certified as a Guardian ad Litem and frequently appointed by courts to represent children in high-conflict cases. Jennifer is a former Chair of the Family and Juvenile Law Section of the Bar Association of Metropolitan St. Louis and an active leader in local and state bar organizations.
Her professional recognition includes being named to The Best Lawyers in America® (2017–2025), Missouri Super Lawyers (2021–2024), and receiving a Women’s Justice Award from Missouri Lawyers Weekly. Jennifer also holds an AV Preeminent rating from Martindale-Hubbell. She regularly speaks on family law topics and has helped shape family court procedures through her service on multiple committees.

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