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Common Divorce Fear: Divorce Will Harm My Children
By Jennifer Piper• July 22, 2024Posted in
One of the biggest fears you may have when considering divorce or separation from your partner is the impact it will have on your children. It is natural to worry that ending your relationship could harm them. However, it is important to know that divorce or separation doesn’t have to harm your children if you handle your separation thoughtfully and sensitively. Understand the Impact of Conflict Divorce or separation can negatively affect your children, but it largely depends on how you and your spouse manage it. If your separation is filled with anger, fighting, and negativity, it can be very harmful. Arguing in front of your children, speaking badly about the other parent in their presence, or creating tense situations during exchanges can leave lasting…
6 Steps in the Collaborative Divorce Process
By Jennifer Piper• March 4, 2026Posted in
In a Collaborative Divorce, you and your spouse choose a team of divorce professionals to help you resolve your divorce privately and respectfully. You each hire your own collaboratively trained attorney, select a divorce coach, a financial professional and child specialist if needed. You meet as a team to address parenting, finances, and any urgent concerns. When you reach a final agreement, the documents are drafted, reviewed, signed and then filed with the court for final approval. Step 1: Choose a Collaborative Attorney The first step in a Collaborative Divorce is finding a Collaborative Divorce attorney you feel comfortable with and want to work with. If your spouse already has a collaborative attorney, the two attorneys will begin talking about how the Collaborative Divorce process…
How Can I Have a Child-Centered Divorce?
By Jennifer Piper• January 4, 2024Posted in
Going through a divorce is tough, especially when there are children involved. Choosing a child-centered divorce approach involves prioritizing your child’s needs over personal desires and conflicts. Here are some steps you can take to ensure your divorce is centered around the well-being of your children. Advantages of a Child-Centered Approach In the midst of divorce, choosing a child-centered approach requires commitment, collaboration, and a genuine focus on your child’s needs. By following these steps and involving professionals, you can navigate the challenging process with the best interests of your child at heart, fostering a healthier future for everyone involved. Contact Family Ally Today If you have questions or need legal assistance regarding divorce or any other family law matter, please contact Jennifer Piper at 314-449-9800 to…
What Are the Types of Meetings in a Collaborative Divorce?
By Jennifer Piper• February 23, 2026Posted in
In a Collaborative Divorce, you may participate in several types of meetings depending on your family’s needs. These can include full team meetings, financial meetings, divorce coaching sessions, and child specialist meetings. Not every case requires all of them, and each meeting serves a specific purpose as you work toward settlement. How Collaborative Divorce Meetings Work Collaborative Divorce is built around structured conversations. Instead of going to court, you and your spouse meet with professionals in planned sessions designed to resolve issues and reach a final agreement. Each meeting has a defined role. Some focus on finances. Some address parenting. Others deal with communication or emotional concerns. Together, they help move the process forward in an organized way. Full Team Meetings The full team meeting…
Putting Your Children First in a Divorce
By Jennifer Piper• January 19, 2026Posted in
Putting your children first during divorce supports their emotional and mental health and helps them build healthier relationships later in life. A cooperative process, such as Collaborative Divorce, allows parents to focus on their children’s real needs rather than conflict. Why Putting Children First Matters Children are deeply affected by how divorce unfolds. Ongoing conflict places them in a constant state of stress, which can interfere with healthy emotional and mental development. That stress does not simply disappear once the divorce is final. In some cases, it can lead to lasting challenges that follow children into adulthood. Parents want their children to grow into healthy, well-adjusted adults, and how you handle divorce plays a role in that development. Putting children first means keeping them out…
7 Common Reasons for Modifying Child Custody
By Jennifer Piper• August 26, 2024Posted in
There are many reasons why you might need to modify an existing custody order to better suit the changing needs of your child and family. As life progresses, changes are inevitable. This is especially true in questions related to child custody. Here are some of the most common reasons that child custody orders are changed. 1. Changes in your Child’s Needs As your child grows, their needs change. A custody arrangement that worked well for a toddler might not be suitable for a teenager. Older children often have more activities, such as sports, clubs, and social events. If one parent is better able to transport the child to these activities or provide support for their interests, a modification may be necessary. Additionally, as children mature,…
Collaborative Divorce vs. Mediation: Which Is Best for You?
By Jennifer Piper• August 4, 2025Posted in
Both Collaborative Divorce and Mediation help you avoid court, but they offer different types of support. Mediation may work well if you and your spouse can communicate and are informed. Collaborative Divorce provides more structure and team-based support, which is helpful for families with concerns that require extra guidance. Collaborative Divorce and Mediation Help You Stay Out of Court If you are looking for a more peaceful way to divorce, Mediation and Collaborative Divorce are two strong options. Both allow you to stay out of court and make your own decisions. The difference lies in the level of support and who is involved in the process. In Mediation, you work with a neutral third party, meeting either alone or with your attorneys participating. This can…
How to Talk to Your Kids About Divorce
By Jennifer Piper• October 14, 2024Posted in
One of the toughest things that you will have to do in your divorce is to tell your kids. Talking to them about the changes that are coming can be overwhelming, but with the right approach, you can help them understand and adjust more easily. Here’s how to approach this sensitive conversation with care and clarity. Tailor the Conversation to Their Age The way you discuss your divorce with your children should depend on their age and emotional maturity. Younger kids, for instance, may only need to know that they will be loved and cared for, even as the family dynamics change. For them, simple explanations like “We’re going to be living in different houses, but we both love you very much” are often sufficient….
Why You Should Choose Collaborative Divorce
By Jennifer Piper• November 20, 2023Posted in
Collaborative Divorce is a divorce process that has gained popularity because it offers a more amicable and efficient way to navigate the divorce process versus the option of going to court. Here are some of the benefits of Collaborative Divorce: 1. Control and Privacy One of the primary advantages of opting for Collaborative Divorce is the increased level of control over the proceedings. Collaborative Divorce empowers you to have more say in the decisions that will shape your future. Unlike the public nature of courtroom proceedings, Collaborative Divorce offers a significant degree of privacy, preventing personal details and sensitive information from becoming public knowledge. This includes financial records, medical information, and other confidential aspects that you may not want to share publicly. 2. Open Communication…
Cost of Litigation: Can You Afford NOT to Settle Your Divorce Out of Court?
By Jennifer Piper• July 28, 2025Posted in
Court battles are costly, time-consuming, and emotionally draining with uncertain outcomes. An amicable divorce, resolved through Mediation or Collaborative Divorce offer more affordable, efficient, and respectful alternatives that help protect your finances, relationships, and well-being. Going to Court may mean that you spend more money and get less in return. The True Cost of a Court Battle When emotions are high, you might feel tempted to “win” your divorce in court. But trials do not come cheap, financially or emotionally. Between attorney fees, expert witnesses, court filings, and time away from work, litigation costs add up quickly. In many cases, what you spend fighting in court could be more than what you might recover. Why Trial Is So Expensive Going to trial is not a…