Parenting Plan

What Is a Parenting Plan?~ 2 min read

Co-parenting after a divorce or separation can be complex, but a well-crafted parenting plan will provide the clarity and structure needed to make it work for the benefit of your children.  Let’s explore what parenting plans are all about and why they are so important.

At its core, a parenting plan is a detailed document that outlines how separated or divorced parents will share the responsibilities of raising their children. It’s essentially a roadmap for co-parenting, covering a wide range of aspects to ensure smooth cooperation between parents.

  • Custody Arrangements: This includes both legal custody (decision-making authority) and physical custody (where the child resides).
  • Visitation Schedule: Clearly defining when each parent will spend time with the child, including weekdays, weekends, holidays, and vacations.
  • Communication Protocols: Establishing guidelines for how parents will communicate with each other and with the child, whether it’s through phone calls, emails, or other means.
  • Dispute Resolution: Outlining procedures for resolving conflicts or disagreements that may arise between parents, such as mediation or arbitration.
  • Relocation Guidelines: Addressing how parental relocation will impact custody arrangements and visitation schedules.
  • Financial Responsibilities: Detailing matters such as child support, healthcare expenses, and childcare costs to ensure financial transparency and fairness.
  • Additional Details: Including any other relevant information, such as travel arrangements, participation in extracurricular activities, and decision-making processes for day-to-day matters.

A parenting plan serves as a crucial tool for promoting stability and reducing conflict in co-parenting situations. By clearly outlining expectations and responsibilities, it helps parents maintain a cooperative relationship and prioritize the well-being of your children.

While courts may provide standard templates, it is often best for you and your ex-spouse to customize your plan based on your unique circumstances and preferences. Working with a mediator or using collaborative methods can facilitate productive discussions and ensure that the plan meets the needs of both you and your children.

A well-designed parenting plan lays the foundation for successful co-parenting by fostering communication, cooperation, and mutual respect. While the process of creating a plan may require time and effort, the long-term benefits for both parents and children make it more than worth it.

Remember, flexibility and open communication are key to making your parenting plan work in the real world. By prioritizing the best interests of your children and maintaining a collaborative approach, you can navigate the challenges of co-parenting with confidence and grace.

If you have questions or need legal assistance regarding a parenting plan, divorce or any other family law matter, please contact Jennifer Piper at 314-449-9800 to schedule a consultation. Family Ally is located at 130 S. Bemiston Ave., Suite 608, St. Louis, MO 63105.

Jennifer Piper

Jennifer R. Piper is a family law attorney, mediator, and parenting coordinator with more than 20 years of experience serving families in the St. Louis area. She is certified as a Guardian ad Litem and frequently appointed by courts to represent children in high-conflict cases. Jennifer is a former Chair of the Family and Juvenile Law Section of the Bar Association of Metropolitan St. Louis and an active leader in local and state bar organizations.
Her professional recognition includes being named to The Best Lawyers in America® (2017–2025), Missouri Super Lawyers (2021–2024), and receiving a Women’s Justice Award from Missouri Lawyers Weekly. Jennifer also holds an AV Preeminent rating from Martindale-Hubbell. She regularly speaks on family law topics and has helped shape family court procedures through her service on multiple committees.

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