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  • Who Makes Medical Decisions for Your Child After Divorce?

    By Jennifer Piper • December 8, 2025

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    After your divorce, medical decisions for your child depend on whether you share joint legal custody or if one parent has sole legal custody. In Missouri, most parents have joint legal custody, which means you work together on major healthcare choices. If there are disagreements on medical issues, you can use a parenting coordinator to help make those decisions. Understanding Medical Decision-Making After Divorce When you and your co-parent are no longer married, who makes medical decisions for your child can feel uncertain. Missouri law provides a structure for those decisions through joint legal custody or sole legal custody, but your agreement or court order ultimately guides how decisions are made. Joint or Sole Legal Custody In Missouri, most parents receive joint legal custody. This…
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  • Why the Mediation Process Is a Better Option

    By Jennifer Piper • November 24, 2025

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    Mediation gives you more control, privacy, and flexibility than going to court. It allows you and your spouse to create solutions that fit your family instead of relying on a judge’s decision. For most families, Mediation saves time, money, and emotional stress while helping preserve respect between both parties. What Makes Mediation Different In Mediation, you and your spouse work together with a neutral mediator to reach agreements on important issues such as custody, support, and property division. Instead of preparing for a public courtroom battle, you can talk through your concerns privately and focus on finding common ground. Court cases often take months or even years to finish, and by the time a judge issues an order, the situation may have already changed. In…
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  • What Issues in a Divorce Decree Can Be Modified and What Cannot

    By Jennifer Piper • November 10, 2025

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    In Missouri, you can modify most parts of your divorce decree that involve children or support if circumstances change. Property division, however, is permanent once finalized. Mediation and the Collaborative Divorce process can help you make these changes more privately and flexibly than traditional court proceedings. What Can Be Modified Anything related to your children can be changed if it supports their best interests and if circumstances have significantly changed. This includes legal and physical custody, child support, parenting schedules, school and activity costs, and health insurance. Missouri courts allow modifications so that parenting plans remain practical and continue to work for your family as life evolves. Maintenance, also known as spousal support, can also be modified. You may request an increase, decrease, or termination…
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  • Why You Should Have a Divorce Attorney

    By Jennifer Piper • September 8, 2025

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    Even the simplest divorce can create costly mistakes if you go through it alone.  A family law attorney will protect your rights, help you make sound decisions, and prevent problems that could surface years later.   The short-term savings on representing yourself can end up costing you more in legal fees over the long-term. Emotions Make It Hard to Think Like a Business Deal Divorce is both legal and emotional. When you try to represent yourself, emotions can take over and cloud your judgment. You may agree to something just to get it over with, or you may refuse to compromise when a fair settlement is possible. An attorney gives you an objective perspective and helps you focus on the legal and financial issues that will…
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  • 7 Ways that Divorce in Missouri Has Changed

    By Jennifer Piper • August 18, 2025

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    Getting divorced in Missouri now offers more options than it did years ago. Mediation is often required, Collaborative Divorce is more widely available, and remote meetings are common. These changes make it easier for families to resolve divorce issues more peacefully and with more control over the outcome. Change # 1 – Going to Court is No Longer the Only Option Years ago, most divorces in Missouri were resolved through traditional litigation. That often meant long, expensive court battles. Today, more families are turning to Mediation or Collaborative Divorce to reach agreements. These methods focus on working together instead of fighting it out in court. The result is a better outcome for families and reduces the emotional toll of the divorce process. Change # 2…
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  • 7 Things to Know About Divorce in Missouri

    By Jennifer Piper • June 9, 2025

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    Divorce litigation in Missouri is expensive, stressful, and unpredictable. If you want more control, privacy, and peace of mind, consider an amicable divorce through Mediation or a Collaborative Divorce. Many people start the divorce process hoping the court will sort everything out in a fair way. But once you are in the system, it can feel like you have lost control. Court schedules move slowly, legal fees add up quickly, and you may end up with decisions that do not reflect your families’ values or goals. Before you move forward, it helps to understand a few key things about how divorce works in Missouri. 1. Litigation Does Not Guarantee a Win No matter how strong your case seems, you are probably not going to walk…
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  • Bankruptcy and Divorce: What to Know

    By Jennifer Piper • May 12, 2025

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    If you, your spouse, or both of you are in financial trouble, it is important to understand how bankruptcy might affect your divorce and what steps you need to take to avoid setbacks. You May Need Permission to Proceed with Your Divorce If you have already filed for bankruptcy, you will likely need permission from the bankruptcy court to move forward with dividing property, setting support payments, or finalizing other parts of your divorce. Custody decisions can typically continue without delay, but anything that involves money or property must go through the proper process with the bankruptcy court. When you both agree, getting this permission is usually straightforward with a consent motion and order.  However, if you can’t agree, a contested motion may need to…
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  • Divorce: The Emotional and Financial Costs

    By Jennifer Piper • May 5, 2025

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    You likely feel hurt, angry, or even betrayed during the process of your divorce;  but beware your emotions can make the entire divorce process more expensive. Additionally, Judges notice emotional behavior and it can influence their decisions about custody, property division, or even legal fees. Decisions That Cost More Than Money The emotional side of divorce affects more than your bank account. If you become too attached to a house, a business, or other physical property, you might make choices that do not serve your future well-being. For example, keeping a house, you cannot afford or refusing to sell an asset out of spite can leave you financially unstable after the divorce. Emotionally driven decisions can also affect your relationships with your children or your…
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  • What Do You Have to Gain by Being Nice During Your Divorce?

    By Jennifer Piper • April 28, 2025

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    Divorce can bring out strong emotions, but how you handle those feelings can make a big difference. You might feel angry or hurt, but treating your spouse with kindness during the process can have real benefits. Being respectful is not just about avoiding conflict. It can affect important decisions like property division, legal fees, and child custody. Your Behavior Is Being Watched Once the divorce process begins, many people are observing your actions. Attorneys on both sides, a guardian ad litem if children are involved, and most importantly, the judge, are all paying attention. Every text message, email, comment, and social media post you make can be reviewed and considered during your case. If you come across as angry or uncooperative, it could hurt you…
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  • Pets and Divorce

    Divorce: Finding the Best Outcome for You and Your Pet

    By Jennifer Piper • April 21, 2025

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    When going through a divorce, deciding what happens to your pet is an emotional and complicated issue. While you may see your pet as a beloved family member, Missouri law treats them differently. In divorce cases, pets are considered property, similar to a couch or a piece of furniture. But we all know that pets are more than just property for your family.  Here is what you need to understand when making pet decisions. The Legal Status of Pets In Missouri, pets are not given the same treatment as children in divorce cases. The law does not allow for “custody” arrangements for pets, meaning they won’t move between homes like a child would. Instead, a court will decide who keeps the pet, just as it…
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