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  • Collaborative Divorce vs. Mediation: Which Is Best for You?

    By Jennifer Piper • August 4, 2025

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    Both Collaborative Divorce and Mediation help you avoid court, but they offer different types of support. Mediation may work well if you and your spouse can communicate and are informed. Collaborative Divorce provides more structure and team-based support, which is helpful for families with concerns that require extra guidance. Collaborative Divorce and Mediation Help You Stay Out of Court If you are looking for a more peaceful way to divorce, Mediation and Collaborative Divorce are two strong options. Both allow you to stay out of court and make your own decisions. The difference lies in the level of support and who is involved in the process. In Mediation, you work with a neutral third party, meeting either alone or with your attorneys participating. This can…
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  • Cost of Litigation: Can You Afford NOT to Settle Your Divorce Out of Court?

    By Jennifer Piper • July 28, 2025

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    Court battles are costly, time-consuming, and emotionally draining with uncertain outcomes. An amicable divorce, resolved through Mediation or Collaborative Divorce offer more affordable, efficient, and respectful alternatives that help protect your finances, relationships, and well-being. Going to Court may mean that you spend more money and get less in return. The True Cost of a Court Battle When emotions are high, you might feel tempted to “win” your divorce in court. But trials do not come cheap, financially or emotionally. Between attorney fees, expert witnesses, court filings, and time away from work, litigation costs add up quickly. In many cases, what you spend fighting in court could be more than what you might recover. Why Trial Is So Expensive Going to trial is not a…
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  • Gray Divorce: Why Mediation and Collaborative Divorce Are Better Divorce Options

    By Jennifer Piper • July 21, 2025

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    For those divorcing after 50, Mediation and Collaborative Divorce offer a more thoughtful, flexible, and less stressful alternative to court. These approaches allow you to address unique concerns like retirement, health care, estate planning, and family dynamics, helping you protect your legacy and move forward with greater peace of mind. Divorce Over 50 Brings Different Priorities When you divorce later in life, your concerns often look different from those of younger couples. You might be thinking about retirement income, long-term health care, estate plans, or even how your adult children will be affected. A divorce court is not set up to handle those kinds of concerns in a meaningful way. That is why choosing an amicable option, such as Mediation or Collaborative Divorce can be…
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  • Can You Be Friends After Divorce?

    By Jennifer Piper • July 14, 2025

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    How you divorce will shape if you can be friends afterward. Choosing an amicable process, such as Mediation or Collaborative Divorce for your divorce will foster respect and cooperation, making it easier to stay on good terms, which is especially important if you share children or a wider family. A peaceful process will support healthier relationships and emotional well-being moving forward. Post-Divorce Friendship Starts with How You Choose to Divorce Whether you and your former spouse can be friends after the divorce, depends on how the divorce itself is handled. If you treat each other with respect, work through disagreements calmly, and avoid courtroom battles, you are more likely to be on good terms later. That does not mean you will be best friends, but…
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  • What Is a Divorce Settlement Agreement?

    By Jennifer Piper • July 7, 2025

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    A divorce settlement agreement, also known as a marital settlement agreement or martial separation agreement, outlines how you and your spouse will divide property, debt,  and sometimes even pets. If done correctly, it helps avoid future court battles and brings your divorce to a final resolution. A Written Agreement That Finalizes the Details When you and your spouse agree to divorce, you need to sort out the practical parts of ending a marriage. A divorce or marital settlement agreement is the legal document that covers those decisions. It lists all of your assets and debts, explains who gets what, and includes protections to reduce the risk of disputes and litigation later on. Everything Needs to Be Listed Even if you think something belongs only to…
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  • Boom or Bust: Does the Economy Affect Divorce Decisions?

    By Jennifer Piper • June 23, 2025

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    The economy can influence many aspects of your divorce, from whether you decide to file, to how you divide assets, handle support, or even afford legal costs. A downturn may push some couples toward faster settlements, while others face new financial pressures that make divorce harder to manage. An amicable divorce, Collaborative Divorce, or Mediation may offer more flexible solutions in a changing economy. The State of the Economy Can Shape Your Choices When the economy takes a downturn, it affects more than your wallet. It can also impact your marriage and your decision to divorce. For some couples, financial stress increases the strain at home, which leads to more people reaching out to lawyers. Others may delay filing, either because they are trying to…
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  • What Makes the Best Divorce Lawyers Different

    By Jennifer Piper • June 16, 2025

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    The best divorce lawyers work to keep your case focused and fair. They do not stir up unnecessary conflict or waste your money. They are upfront about the risks, cooperate with the other side when possible, and help you reach an outcome that makes sense for you and your family. Why the Right Attorney Can Save You Time, Money, and Stress When you are starting the divorce process, it may seem like hiring an aggressive attorney is the safest option. But choosing someone who pushes for unnecessary battles can quickly drain your finances and slow everything down. Court fights take time, cost more in legal fees, and often lead to more stress without better results. The best divorce lawyers look for ways to work through…
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  • 7 Things to Know About Divorce in Missouri

    By Jennifer Piper • June 9, 2025

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    Divorce litigation in Missouri is expensive, stressful, and unpredictable. If you want more control, privacy, and peace of mind, consider an amicable divorce through Mediation or a Collaborative Divorce. Many people start the divorce process hoping the court will sort everything out in a fair way. But once you are in the system, it can feel like you have lost control. Court schedules move slowly, legal fees add up quickly, and you may end up with decisions that do not reflect your families’ values or goals. Before you move forward, it helps to understand a few key things about how divorce works in Missouri. 1. Litigation Does Not Guarantee a Win No matter how strong your case seems, you are probably not going to walk…
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  • Divorce: What to Consider Before You Remarry

    By Jennifer Piper • June 2, 2025

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    If you have gone through a divorce, before you remarry, you should take time to evaluate how a new relationship could affect your children, financial obligations, and legal rights. Conversations about debt, assets, and future responsibilities are not only practical, they are a necessity. A prenuptial agreement or consultation with a lawyer can help protect everyone involved. Put Your Children First If you have children from your previous marriage, their needs should remain a top priority. This includes making sure you have the resources to support them if your situation changes. You may want your assets to go to your children if something happens to you. That may require a prenuptial agreement, trust, or an updated estate plan. Without something in place, your new spouse…
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  • Can I Change My Will During My Divorce?

    By Jennifer Piper • May 27, 2025

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    When you are in the middle of a divorce, you may start thinking about changing your will or updating your estate plan. While it is possible to make some changes, there are limits to what you can do and what will actually be recognized. You Can Change It, But It May Not Hold Up In Missouri, you are allowed to revise your will while your divorce is pending. However, if something were to happen to you before the divorce is finalized, the court may still treat your spouse as your legal heir. Unless you have a pre or post nuptial agreement or another legal document that says otherwise, most or all of your assets may still go to your spouse. Even if you change your…
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