Collaborative Divorce

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How to Talk to Your Kids About Divorce

Divorce

One of the toughest things that you will have to do in your divorce is to tell your kids. Talking to them about the changes that are coming can be overwhelming, but with the right approach, you can help them understand and adjust more easily. Here’s how to approach this sensitive conversation with care and clarity. Tailor the Conversation to Their Age The way you discuss your divorce with your children should depend on their age and emotional maturity. Younger kids, for instance, may only need to know that they will be loved and cared for, even as the family dynamics change. For them, simple explanations like “We’re going to be living in different houses, but we both love you very much” are often sufficient….

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Recommendations About Using Social Media During Your Divorce

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One of the best things you can do for yourself while going through a divorce is to minimize your social media activity. Anything you post online can potentially be used as evidence in your divorce case. Photos of expensive dinners, vacations, or new purchases might raise questions about your financial situation, which could impact alimony or child support negotiations. Even seemingly innocent posts can be misinterpreted, so it’s best to stay off social media as much as possible. Divorce brings a lot of emotional stress, and social media can make things even more complicated if you’re not careful. Here are some additional tips for managing your online activity while going through the divorce process. Avoid Discussing Your Divorce Never post about your divorce on social…

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Collaborative Divorce: Advantages of Having a Communication Coach

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One of the primary causes of divorce is a breakdown in communication between spouses.  You and your spouse can’t hear what the other is saying anymore.  One of the advantages of a Collaborative Divorce is that part of the team includes a mental health neutral, who serves as a communication coach to help both sides hear and understand what the other is saying. Here’s how having a communication coach can be a game-changer for you and your spouse during this difficult time. Facilitating Productive Discussions One of the most significant advantages of having a communications coach is their ability to facilitate conversations between you, your spouse, and your attorneys. When emotions run high, it can be difficult to stay focused on the issues at hand….

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Divorce: How to Control Your Future

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The thought that someone else making decisions about your life in your divorce can be overwhelming. However, there are ways to take control of your future during the divorce process to ensure that the decisions made are tailored to your unique situation. By focusing on out of court options such as Mediation and Collaborative Divorce, you can avoid leaving your fate in the hands of a judge who is not fully understanding of your family’s needs. Why Settling is Key If you want to control your future in a divorce, the best way to do so is through a settlement of your case. Whether it’s an informal discussion, a settlement at the courthouse, Mediation, or Collaborative Divorce, settling gives you more control over the outcome….

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How to Choose the Right Attorney

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Choosing the right attorney can significantly impact the outcome of your case. When you are dealing with a family law matter, or any other legal issue, finding an attorney who is the right fit for you is key. Here is a guide to walk you through the steps to make an informed decision. 1. Interview Multiple Attorneys The first step in choosing the right attorney is to interview multiple candidates. Don’t feel pressured to hire the first lawyer you meet. Take your time to talk to several attorneys, either in person or through a consultation. By doing so, you’ll be able to compare their approaches, experience, and communication styles. Ask each attorney about their experience with cases similar to yours. How do they handle these…

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Understanding Mediation in a Divorce

Divorce

Mediation is a process that can help you resolve disputes without going to court. It is especially useful in family law cases, like divorce or child custody, where emotions run high, and the traditional court system can be overwhelming and costly. Understanding how mediation works, and its benefits can make the divorce process smoother for you and your spouse. How Does Mediation Work? Mediation uses a neutral third party, known as a mediator, who helps both sides to reach an agreement. You can choose to hold your mediation with or without your attorney. Here’s a step-by-step breakdown of what typically happens during mediation: Benefits of Mediation Conclusion Mediation is a valuable tool for resolving disputes, especially in family law cases. By understanding the process and…

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Common Divorce Fear: Making It Financially

Divorce

Divorce brings a lot of changes. One common fear a common fear people may experience is regarding your financial future. Managing your finances on your own might seem challenging, but with the right approach and resources, you can overcome this fear and achieve financial independence. Here are six practical steps to help you handle this situation effectively. Final Thoughts In facing your financial fears during a divorce, it is important to remember that you are not alone. Resources and professionals are available to help you through this process and secure your financial future. By taking proactive steps to understand your finances, create a budget, seek professional help, and plan for the future, you can overcome those financial fears and thrive independently. Contact Family Ally At…

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Your Fear Can Make Your Divorce or Custody Case More Expensive

Child Custody, Divorce

Divorce and Custody cases have lots of emotions and uncertainties. One of the most significant factors that can unintentionally increase the cost of your divorce or custody case is fear. When you act out of fear, your reactions can become irrational, leading to unnecessary conflicts and complications. Understanding how fear influences your behavior during a divorce or custody case can help you manage your emotions better and potentially save you a significant amount of money. How Fear Influences Divorce or Custody Case Costs When fear takes over, you might find yourself acting impulsively or making decisions that are not in your or your children’s best interest. Here’s how fear can manifest and escalate the cost of your divorce or custody case: How to Manage Your…

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Common Divorce Fears:What Others Will Think

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Divorce is a significant life event that comes with a variety of emotions and challenges. One of the most common fears is the fear of what others will think. This can manifest in various ways, from worrying about friends and family’s opinions to concerns about how the community will view you. Let’s explore this common divorce fear and how to overcome it. The Fear of Filing One of the initial hurdles in the divorce process is the fear of filing for divorce. This is often tied to concerns about how your family and friends will react. Even though divorce is more common today, it still carries a stigma for many people. The idea of admitting to loved ones that your marriage is ending can feel…

Collaborative Divorce

Who Is Eligible For Collaborative Divorce and Who Is Not?

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Collaborative Divorce is an excellent option for many couples seeking to end their marriage amicably and efficiently. However, there may be some cases that are better than others for Collaborative Divorce than others. Eligibility for Collaborative Divorce Who Might Not Be Eligible Conclusion Collaborative Divorce can be a valuable option for many couples seeking to end their marriage with dignity and respect. Ultimately, the key is to find an approach to divorce that best meets the needs and circumstances of you and your spouse. Contact Family Ally If you have questions or need legal assistance regarding Collaborative Divorce or any other family law matter, please contact Jennifer Piper at 314-449-9800 to schedule a consultation. Family Ally is located at 130 S. Bemiston Ave., Suite 608, St. Louis, MO…