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Why Fighting in Divorce is the Wrong Approach

Why Fighting in Divorce is the Wrong Approach

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It’s natural to feel frustrated during a divorce but turning it into a fight can lead to more challenges down the road. Disagreements and tensions are part of the process, but escalating them into a battle can waste time, money, and energy. Rather than focusing on fighting, it’s more productive to find ways to resolve issues calmly and fairly. This approach not only helps you move forward more quickly but also creates a better environment for you and your family. It Drains Your Resources Divorce litigation is expensive. The longer you fight in court, the more money you’ll spend on lawyers, court fees, and other costs. This money could be better spent on things that truly matter, like your children’s education, your future retirement, or…

Do I Need a Lawyer for Mediation?

Do I Need a Lawyer for Mediation?

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Mediation is designed to be a less adversarial process than going to court in a divorce, and many people wonder if involving a lawyer is necessary. While it’s not required, having legal guidance will benefit you during the process. Why You Should Consider a Lawyer Although mediation encourages you to reach a mutual agreement, your lawyer can make sure that you have a full understanding of your legal rights. A mediator is neutral and can explain the law, but they cannot give you specific legal advice. Without legal advice, you may agree to something that doesn’t serve your best interests or leaves you unprotected in the future. A lawyer can help you: Should Your Lawyer Attend the Mediation? It’s not mandatory for your lawyer to…

Do's and don'ts

Do’s and Don’ts on Communicating with Your Mediator

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Mediation is a great way to settle family disputes, but how you communicate with your mediator plays a big role in the process. Here are some simple do’s and don’ts to help you to work through your mediation successfully. Do’s: Effective Ways to Communicate Don’ts: What to Avoid Conclusion Effective communication with your mediator is one of the keys to a successful Mediation process. By following these guidelines, you help to reach an agreement that is in the best interest of you, your spouse and your family.  By keeping your communication professional, focused, and timely, you can ensure that the mediation process will be as smooth and constructive as possible. Contact Family Ally At Family Ally, we’re dedicated to helping families navigate disputes with expert…

How to talk to your kids

How to Talk to Your Kids About Divorce

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One of the toughest things that you will have to do in your divorce is to tell your kids. Talking to them about the changes that are coming can be overwhelming, but with the right approach, you can help them understand and adjust more easily. Here’s how to approach this sensitive conversation with care and clarity. Tailor the Conversation to Their Age The way you discuss your divorce with your children should depend on their age and emotional maturity. Younger kids, for instance, may only need to know that they will be loved and cared for, even as the family dynamics change. For them, simple explanations like “We’re going to be living in different houses, but we both love you very much” are often sufficient….

Using Social Media during divorce

Recommendations About Using Social Media During Your Divorce

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One of the best things you can do for yourself while going through a divorce is to minimize your social media activity. Anything you post online can potentially be used as evidence in your divorce case. Photos of expensive dinners, vacations, or new purchases might raise questions about your financial situation, which could impact alimony or child support negotiations. Even seemingly innocent posts can be misinterpreted, so it’s best to stay off social media as much as possible. Divorce brings a lot of emotional stress, and social media can make things even more complicated if you’re not careful. Here are some additional tips for managing your online activity while going through the divorce process. Avoid Discussing Your Divorce Never post about your divorce on social…

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Collaborative Divorce: Advantages of Having a Communication Coach

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One of the primary causes of divorce is a breakdown in communication between spouses.  You and your spouse can’t hear what the other is saying anymore.  One of the advantages of a Collaborative Divorce is that part of the team includes a mental health neutral, who serves as a communication coach to help both sides hear and understand what the other is saying. Here’s how having a communication coach can be a game-changer for you and your spouse during this difficult time. Facilitating Productive Discussions One of the most significant advantages of having a communications coach is their ability to facilitate conversations between you, your spouse, and your attorneys. When emotions run high, it can be difficult to stay focused on the issues at hand….

your future

Divorce: How to Control Your Future

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The thought that someone else making decisions about your life in your divorce can be overwhelming. However, there are ways to take control of your future during the divorce process to ensure that the decisions made are tailored to your unique situation. By focusing on out of court options such as Mediation and Collaborative Divorce, you can avoid leaving your fate in the hands of a judge who is not fully understanding of your family’s needs. Why Settling is Key If you want to control your future in a divorce, the best way to do so is through a settlement of your case. Whether it’s an informal discussion, a settlement at the courthouse, Mediation, or Collaborative Divorce, settling gives you more control over the outcome….

Choose Right Lawyer

How to Choose the Right Attorney

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Choosing the right attorney can significantly impact the outcome of your case. When you are dealing with a family law matter, or any other legal issue, finding an attorney who is the right fit for you is key. Here is a guide to walk you through the steps to make an informed decision. 1. Interview Multiple Attorneys The first step in choosing the right attorney is to interview multiple candidates. Don’t feel pressured to hire the first lawyer you meet. Take your time to talk to several attorneys, either in person or through a consultation. By doing so, you’ll be able to compare their approaches, experience, and communication styles. Ask each attorney about their experience with cases similar to yours. How do they handle these…

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Understanding Mediation in a Divorce

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Mediation is a process that can help you resolve disputes without going to court. It is especially useful in family law cases, like divorce or child custody, where emotions run high, and the traditional court system can be overwhelming and costly. Understanding how mediation works, and its benefits can make the divorce process smoother for you and your spouse. How Does Mediation Work? Mediation uses a neutral third party, known as a mediator, who helps both sides to reach an agreement. You can choose to hold your mediation with or without your attorney. Here’s a step-by-step breakdown of what typically happens during mediation: Benefits of Mediation Conclusion Mediation is a valuable tool for resolving disputes, especially in family law cases. By understanding the process and…

Divorce Fear

Common Divorce Fear: Making It Financially

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Divorce brings a lot of changes. One common fear a common fear people may experience is regarding your financial future. Managing your finances on your own might seem challenging, but with the right approach and resources, you can overcome this fear and achieve financial independence. Here are six practical steps to help you handle this situation effectively. Final Thoughts In facing your financial fears during a divorce, it is important to remember that you are not alone. Resources and professionals are available to help you through this process and secure your financial future. By taking proactive steps to understand your finances, create a budget, seek professional help, and plan for the future, you can overcome those financial fears and thrive independently. Contact Family Ally At…