Divorce

Boom or Bust: Does the Economy Affect Divorce Decisions?

June 23, 2025June 23, 2025 Divorce

The economy can influence many aspects of your divorce, from whether you decide to file, to how you divide assets, handle support, or even afford legal costs. A downturn may push some couples toward faster settlements, while others face new financial pressures that make divorce harder to manage. An amicable divorce, Collaborative Divorce, or Mediation may offer more flexible solutions in a changing economy. The State of the Economy Can Shape Your Choices When the economy takes a downturn, it affects more than your wallet. It can also impact your marriage and your decision to divorce. For some couples, financial stress increases the strain at home, which leads to more people reaching out to lawyers. Others may delay filing, either because they are trying to…

What Makes the Best Divorce Lawyers Different

June 16, 2025June 16, 2025 Divorce

The best divorce lawyers work to keep your case focused and fair. They do not stir up unnecessary conflict or waste your money. They are upfront about the risks, cooperate with the other side when possible, and help you reach an outcome that makes sense for you and your family. Why the Right Attorney Can Save You Time, Money, and Stress When you are starting the divorce process, it may seem like hiring an aggressive attorney is the safest option. But choosing someone who pushes for unnecessary battles can quickly drain your finances and slow everything down. Court fights take time, cost more in legal fees, and often lead to more stress without better results. The best divorce lawyers look for ways to work through…

7 Things to Know About Divorce in Missouri

June 9, 2025June 9, 2025 Divorce

Divorce litigation in Missouri is expensive, stressful, and unpredictable. If you want more control, privacy, and peace of mind, consider an amicable divorce through Mediation or a Collaborative Divorce. Many people start the divorce process hoping the court will sort everything out in a fair way. But once you are in the system, it can feel like you have lost control. Court schedules move slowly, legal fees add up quickly, and you may end up with decisions that do not reflect your families’ values or goals. Before you move forward, it helps to understand a few key things about how divorce works in Missouri. 1. Litigation Does Not Guarantee a Win No matter how strong your case seems, you are probably not going to walk…

Divorce: What to Consider Before You Remarry

June 2, 2025June 2, 2025 Divorce

If you have gone through a divorce, before you remarry, you should take time to evaluate how a new relationship could affect your children, financial obligations, and legal rights. Conversations about debt, assets, and future responsibilities are not only practical, they are a necessity. A prenuptial agreement or consultation with a lawyer can help protect everyone involved. Put Your Children First If you have children from your previous marriage, their needs should remain a top priority. This includes making sure you have the resources to support them if your situation changes. You may want your assets to go to your children if something happens to you. That may require a prenuptial agreement, trust, or an updated estate plan. Without something in place, your new spouse…

Can I Change My Will During My Divorce?

May 27, 2025May 27, 2025 Divorce

When you are in the middle of a divorce, you may start thinking about changing your will or updating your estate plan. While it is possible to make some changes, there are limits to what you can do and what will actually be recognized. You Can Change It, But It May Not Hold Up In Missouri, you are allowed to revise your will while your divorce is pending. However, if something were to happen to you before the divorce is finalized, the court may still treat your spouse as your legal heir. Unless you have a pre or post nuptial agreement or another legal document that says otherwise, most or all of your assets may still go to your spouse. Even if you change your…

Divorce: Why Do I Need a QDRO?

May 19, 2025May 19, 2025 Divorce

When you’re finalizing your divorce, you may think everything is settled once the judge signs the agreement. But if you’re dividing retirement accounts, you’ll likely need one more step: a Qualified Domestic Relations Order, or QDRO (pronounced “quad-ro”). What a QDRO Actually Does A QDRO is separate from your divorce judgment and plays a key role in making sure the division of retirement accounts is recognized and processed properly. Think of a QDRO like the title to a car. If you’re awarded a vehicle in the divorce, the judgment gives you ownership, but you still have to re-title it at the DMV. The same is true for retirement plans. A QDRO acts as the legal document that transfers part of a retirement account, such as…

Bankruptcy and Divorce: What to Know

May 12, 2025May 19, 2025 Divorce

If you, your spouse, or both of you are in financial trouble, it is important to understand how bankruptcy might affect your divorce and what steps you need to take to avoid setbacks. You May Need Permission to Proceed with Your Divorce If you have already filed for bankruptcy, you will likely need permission from the bankruptcy court to move forward with dividing property, setting support payments, or finalizing other parts of your divorce. Custody decisions can typically continue without delay, but anything that involves money or property must go through the proper process with the bankruptcy court. When you both agree, getting this permission is usually straightforward with a consent motion and order. However, if you can’t agree, a contested motion may need to…

Divorce: The Emotional and Financial Costs

May 5, 2025May 5, 2025 Divorce

You likely feel hurt, angry, or even betrayed during the process of your divorce; but beware your emotions can make the entire divorce process more expensive. Additionally, Judges notice emotional behavior and it can influence their decisions about custody, property division, or even legal fees. Decisions That Cost More Than Money The emotional side of divorce affects more than your bank account. If you become too attached to a house, a business, or other physical property, you might make choices that do not serve your future well-being. For example, keeping a house, you cannot afford or refusing to sell an asset out of spite can leave you financially unstable after the divorce. Emotionally driven decisions can also affect your relationships with your children or your…

What Do You Have to Gain by Being Nice During Your Divorce?

April 28, 2025April 28, 2025 Divorce

Divorce can bring out strong emotions, but how you handle those feelings can make a big difference. You might feel angry or hurt, but treating your spouse with kindness during the process can have real benefits. Being respectful is not just about avoiding conflict. It can affect important decisions like property division, legal fees, and child custody. Your Behavior Is Being Watched Once the divorce process begins, many people are observing your actions. Attorneys on both sides, a guardian ad litem if children are involved, and most importantly, the judge, are all paying attention. Every text message, email, comment, and social media post you make can be reviewed and considered during your case. If you come across as angry or uncooperative, it could hurt you…

Divorce: Finding the Best Outcome for You and Your Pet

April 21, 2025April 21, 2025 Divorce

When going through a divorce, deciding what happens to your pet is an emotional and complicated issue. While you may see your pet as a beloved family member, Missouri law treats them differently. In divorce cases, pets are considered property, similar to a couch or a piece of furniture. But we all know that pets are more than just property for your family. Here is what you need to understand when making pet decisions. The Legal Status of Pets In Missouri, pets are not given the same treatment as children in divorce cases. The law does not allow for “custody” arrangements for pets, meaning they won’t move between homes like a child would. Instead, a court will decide who keeps the pet, just as it…