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Can You Modify Child Custody Without the Other Parent Agreeing?
By Jennifer Piper• May 18, 2026Posted in
Yes, but you cannot modify child custody without the other parent’s agreement unless you go to court. Judges have broad discretion in custody cases and want parents to try to resolve disputes first through negotiation, Mediation, or Collaborative Divorce. When a Custody Agreement Is Not Possible You may believe a custody change is necessary, but the other parent refuses to agree. There is no way to force a custody modification without either an agreement or a court order. If you cannot agree, your only option is to take the matter to court. However, before going down that path, it is worth trying to resolve things through guided conversations using either Mediation, or the Collaborative Divorce process. If those efforts fail, the court becomes your next…
How Can Divorce Make You a Better Co-Parent?
By Jennifer Piper• May 11, 2026Posted in
The divorce process that you choose will shape your future co-parenting relationship. A cooperative process like an amicable or Collaborative Divorce can help you build better communication habits, reduce conflict, and create a healthier environment for your children. While a litigated courtroom process can destroy the relationship with your co-parent and effect your and your children’s lives forever. How to Set the Right Tone in Your Divorce The path you choose for your divorce does more than end a marriage. It sets the tone for your future as co-parents. If you take an aggressive, attack-focused route, that mindset carries forward into every interaction. Those harsh words and actions do not disappear once the paperwork is signed. They tend to linger. When you choose a more…
Child Custody Issues with a Special Needs Child
By Jennifer Piper• May 7, 2026Posted in
Your Special Needs Child’s Daily Needs Come First When your child has special needs, custody is not just about where they spend their time. You have to look closely at what your child needs to function each day. Some children rely on medical equipment, mobility aids, or home modifications. If one home is set up for those needs and the other is not, moving back and forth may not be realistic or financially achievable. You could find that your child cannot comfortably transition between two homes. In some situations, maintaining one primary residence, sometimes called nesting, may better support your child’s routine. Nesting means that the child stays in the primary residence while you and your spouse move in and out of the home during…
What Happens if You Fall Behind on Child Support Payments?
By Jennifer Piper• April 27, 2026Posted in
If you fall behind on child support payments, you can face serious enforcement actions including wage garnishment, suspension of licenses, court contempt, and even jail time. You also have options to request a child support modification if your financial situation has changed, but you must act quickly to protect yourself. Understanding Enforcement Actions When you don’t keep up with child support, what happens next depends on whether a government enforcement agency is already handling your case. If the Division of Child Support Enforcement (DCSE) is already involved, they will take action. They can set up a wage withholding from your paycheck if one isn’t already in place. They can also pursue actions like garnishing your bank accounts or seizing assets. On top of that, they…
Legal Custody versus Physical Custody in Missouri?
By Jennifer Piper• April 20, 2026Posted in
Legal custody and physical custody serve two very different roles in a parenting plan. Legal custody focuses on who will make important decisions about your child’s life, while physical custody determines the schedule and how your child’s time is shared between you and your co-parent. Understanding how these two types of custody work together will help you create a plan that supports your child and sets clear expectations for both of you. Understanding Legal Custody When you hear “legal custody,” think about decision-making. This covers the major choices that shape your child’s life. These decisions include education, medical care, and activities. For example, you and your co-parent will want to address where your child goes to school, what doctors they see, whether they need to…
Can Children Choose Which Parent to Live with in Missouri?
By Jennifer Piper• April 13, 2026Posted in
In Missouri, your child does not get to choose which parent to live with. The court will consider your child’s wishes as a factor, but there is no specific age where that decision becomes theirs. The weight given to what your child says depends more on maturity than age, and how those wishes are shared with the court varies from case to case. What the Court Really Considers in Missouri If you and your co-parent are working through custody decisions, it is important to understand that your child’s preference is one piece of a much larger picture. Missouri law requires the court to consider the “unobstructed wishes of the child.” That phrase sounds straightforward, but in practice, it is anything but straightforward. Judges, Attorneys, and…
Can Mediation Work If We Disagree on Everything?
By Jennifer Piper• April 6, 2026Posted in
Mediation can work for you and your spouse or co-parent, even if you disagree on everything, as long as you are willing to listen to each other, to the neutral third party, and to consider different ways to solve your issues. If you go into Mediation saying, “We disagree and I will not consider anything else,” you probably will not reach an agreement. But if you and your spouse or co-parent enter the process ready to listen to each other, to the mediator, and to trusted advisors, and are willing to talk about solutions together, Mediation will work for you. How Mediation Works In Mediation, a trained neutral third-party helps you and your spouse or co-parent talk through your differences and work toward solutions you…
The Benefits of a Less Adversarial Divorce vs Litigation
By Jennifer Piper• March 25, 2026Posted in
Choosing a less adversarial divorce process like Mediation or a Collaborative Divorce will protect your family, reduce conflict, and help you build a cooperative relationship with your spouse that benefits your children now and in the future. The Problem with Litigation When you choose litigation, you are immediately pitted against your spouse, the very person you will need to co-parent with for the rest of your life. Starting your post-divorce relationship with conflict and attacks in court sets you up for failure. No one truly wins, and your children will often feel the loss the most. Custody disputes, financial battles, and court hearings can create long-lasting stress and resentment, making it difficult to maintain a positive family relationship. How Mediation and Collaborative Divorce Help By…
Your Attorney’s Role in a Collaborative Divorce
By Jennifer Piper• March 18, 2026Posted in
An attorney in a family law case serves two key roles for you: educator and advocate. They guide you through legal processes, explain options clearly, and protect your interests while helping you make informed decisions that support your family’s needs. Understanding the Legal Landscape Family law can feel confusing with its complex rules, forms, and deadlines. Your attorney helps you understand your options, whether you are considering a Collaborative Divorce, negotiating child custody, or addressing property division and financial matters. By explaining each step clearly and how it affects you and your spouse, your attorney helps you make informed decisions rather than reacting under pressure. They also help you understand long-term consequences. For example, agreements on finances, property, or support can have implications for years…
Creating a Parenting Plan that Will Work
By Jennifer Piper• March 11, 2026Posted in
A parenting plan outlines when each parent has the children, how decisions about their care will be made, and how to handle communication, child support, healthcare, and other expenses. It will serve as a roadmap for your family, ensuring clarity and consistency, and the court will enforce it if disagreements arise. Why Missouri Requires a Parenting Plan When you and your spouse begin planning for your children’s future, one of the first things you will need to create is a parenting plan, a structured document that outlines how you will share time, responsibilities, and decision-making for your children. Missouri law requires this plan as part of finalizing custody, and it must include certain elements that help both of you manage daily life with consistency and…