# Family Ally > Family law, divorce, mediation and collaborative practice resources from Jennifer R. Piper, Family Ally. Family Ally is the practice of Jennifer R. Piper, a Missouri family law attorney and mediator. The site provides guidance on divorce, child custody, child support, mediation, collaborative divorce and alternative dispute resolution. ## Pages - [Recommended Reading Material](https://familyally.com/recommended-reading-material/): Recommended Reading Material St. Louis County Library Divorce Bibliography Ages 2-5 On the Day His Daddy Left by Eric Adams 2000On the day his father moves out of the... - [Suggested Guidelines for Parents During Separation or Divorce](https://familyally.com/suggested-guidelines-for-parents-during-separation-or-divorce/): Suggested Guidelines for Parents During Separation or Divorce The following suggestions are made to help you and your children throughout the divorce process and... - [Essential Do’s and Don’ts For Email Correspondence](https://familyally.com/essential-dos-and-donts-for-email-correspondence/): Essential Do’s and Don’ts For Email Correspondence Navigating the complexities of child custody is a sensitive and critical matter, and effective communication is... - [Spousal Support](https://familyally.com/spousal-support/): Spousal Support Spousal support can also be referred to as spousal maintenance or alimony. Spousal support is a legal arrangement designed to provide financial... - [Child Custody & Support](https://familyally.com/child-custody-support/): Child Custody & Support Child Custody and Child Support matters can be emotionally overwhelming. At Family Ally, we believe that the focus should be on the well-being... - [Parenting Coordination](https://familyally.com/parenting-coordination/): Parenting Coordination Parenting coordination is a relatively new approach to revolving child custody issues. Parent Coordinators often function similarly to... - [Third Party Custody](https://familyally.com/third-party-custody/): Third Party Custody Third-party custody is a legal arrangement in which someone who is not a biological parent is granted custody rights to a child. This may include... - [Step Parent Adoption](https://familyally.com/step-parent-adoption/): Step Parent Adoption Adoption as a stepparent is a journey that can enrich your family and provide a stable, loving home for a child. The adoption process involves... - [Pre – Post Nuptial Agreements](https://familyally.com/pre-post-nuptial-agreements/): Prenuptial & Post-Nuptial Agreements Pre-Marital Agreements, or Prenuptial Agreements, are legal agreements that are negotiated before a couple gets married. A... - [Guardianship](https://familyally.com/guardianship/): Guardianship There are children in St. Louis who, due to unfortunate circumstances such as death, mental health issues, incapacity, drug addiction, or incarceration,... - [Thank You](https://familyally.com/contact-us/confirmation/): Thank You Thank you for reaching out to Family Ally. We have received your message and will respond as soon as possible. - [Strategic Partnerships](https://familyally.com/strategic-partnerships/): Strategic Partnerships Many cases can benefit from the assistance of other professionals who can help determine the value of your property, distinguish separate and... - [Jennifer R. Piper](https://familyally.com/jennifer-r-piper/): Jennifer R. Piper JENNIFER R. PIPER Lawyer, Speaker, & Owner of Family Ally 130 S. Bemiston AveSuite 608St. Louis, Mo 63105 About Jennifer Jennifer R. Piper is a St.... - [Articles](https://familyally.com/articles/): Articles contact us - [Mediation](https://familyally.com/mediation/): Mediation Mediation provides an alternative to traditional divorce battles in Court. Mediation offers a way for you and your spouse to resolve your disputes with the... - [Privacy Policy](https://familyally.com/privacy-policy/): Privacy Policy Last updated March 11, 2020 Introduction General Principles You agree to the Terms of Service As-Is/As Available What you cannot do. You cannot use the... - [Disclaimer](https://familyally.com/disclaimer/): Disclaimer The choice of a lawyer is an important decision and should not be based solely upon advertisements. This website is intended for general information... - [QDROs](https://familyally.com/qdros/): QDROs When a married couple dissolves their marriage, the final divorce decree might not be the only court order that impacts both spouses’ lives in the future. In... - [Property Division](https://familyally.com/property-division/): Property Division Many couples confronting divorce face the challenging prospect of dividing the property they acquired during their marriage. Under Missouri law, all... - [Relocation](https://familyally.com/relocation/): Relocation In St. Louis, if you’re a divorced parent considering relocating with your child, it is important to be aware of the legal requirements. Whether you’re... - [Collaborative Divorce](https://familyally.com/collaborative-divorce/): Collaborative Divorce Divorce is often associated with conflict and disagreements, but it doesn’t have to be that way. Many couples realize the potential to... - [Name Change](https://familyally.com/name-change/): Name Change Name changes are common during the divorce process. However, that is not the only situation when you may want to legally change your name. You have the... - [Process Options](https://familyally.com/process-options/): Process Options Divorce in St. Louis is undoubtedly a difficult and emotionally charged experience. It is important to know that there are different paths to consider... - [Alternative Dispute Resolution](https://familyally.com/alternative-dispute-resolution/): Alternative Dispute Resolution At Family Ally, we understand the emotional and procedural hurdles that accompany the dissolution of a marriage. Our commitment is to... - [Home](https://familyally.com/): JENNIFER R. PIPER Guidance. Protection. Support.Securing Your Future.Your Family Ally. St. Louis Family Lawyer Going through a divorce or custody dispute could turn... - [Contact](https://familyally.com/contact-us/): Contact Us How Can We Help? If you have questions regarding any of our legal services, please fill out and submit the below Contact Form and we will be happy to... - [Sitemap](https://familyally.com/sitemap/) - [Typography](https://familyally.com/typography/): Note: in Kadence and Kadence Child Themes, typography is set(especially with rule– html {font-size: 62.5%} is used in editor-styles.css which is not the default)... ## Blog Posts - [Why You Don’t Win in a Divorce That Goes to Court](https://familyally.com/blog/why-you-dont-win-in-a-divorce-that-goes-to-court/): If your divorce ends in a courtroom battle, there is a very good chance that neither you nor your spouse will walk away satisfied. Choosing an out of court divorce... - [Co-Parenting vs. Parallel Parenting: What’s Best for Your Children?](https://familyally.com/blog/co-parenting-vs-parallel-parenting-whats-best-for-your-children/): When parents separate, it is tempting to think that having as little contact as possible will make life easier. While limited communication may help in certain... - [What Happens If Your Spouse Doesn’t Want a Divorce?](https://familyally.com/blog/what-happens-if-your-spouse-doesnt-want-a-divorce/): If your spouse does not want a divorce, they can slow the divorce process by refusing to cooperate, but they cannot prevent the divorce from happening. In Missouri,... - [Can Mediation or Collaborative Divorce Work in a High-Conflict Divorce?](https://familyally.com/blog/can-mediation-or-collaborative-divorce-work/): If you and your spouse are constantly arguing, a high-conflict divorce does not automatically mean you have to go to court. Mediation and Collaborative Divorce can... - [Why is Collaborative Divorce Better in a High Net Worth Divorce?](https://familyally.com/blog/why-is-collaborative-divorce-better-in-a-high-net-worth-divorce/): Collaborative Divorce can be especially beneficial in high net worth divorce cases because it offers greater privacy, allows financial experts to work jointly,... - [What Is the Biggest Financial Mistake You See in a Divorce?](https://familyally.com/blog/what-is-the-biggest-financial-mistake-you-see-in-a-divorce/): One of the biggest financial mistakes you could make during a divorce is to agree to a settlement without a full understanding of your finances. When you do not... - [How to Calm Your Worries and Fears in a Divorce](https://familyally.com/blog/how-to-calm-your-worries-and-fears-in-a-divorce/): Fear during divorce comes from uncertainty about your future, finances, parenting, and the legal process. Mediation and Collaborative Divorce help reduce that fear by... - [In A Divorce – What Does the Best Interest of a Child Mean?](https://familyally.com/blog/in-a-divorce-what-does-the-best-interest-of-a-child-mean/): In Missouri custody cases, the court decides parenting arrangements based on what serves the child’s overall well-being. Judges look at factors such as each parent’s... - [Can Child Support Be Modified Without Going to Court?](https://familyally.com/blog/can-child-support-be-modified-without-going-to/): Child support can be modified in Missouri without a courtroom battle if you and the other parent are able to reach an agreement. Through Mediation, Collaborative... - [Can You Modify Child Custody Without the Other Parent Agreeing?](https://familyally.com/blog/can-you-modify-child-custody-without-the-other-parent-agreeing/): Yes, but you cannot modify child custody without the other parent’s agreement unless you go to court. Judges have broad discretion in custody cases and want parents... - [How Can Divorce Make You a Better Co-Parent?](https://familyally.com/blog/how-can-divorce-make-you-a-better-co-parent/): The divorce process that you choose will shape your future co-parenting relationship. A cooperative process like an amicable or Collaborative Divorce can help you... - [Child Custody Issues with a Special Needs Child](https://familyally.com/blog/child-custody-issues-with-a-special-needs-child/): Your Special Needs Child’s Daily Needs Come First When your child has special needs, custody is not just about where they spend their time. You have to look closely... - [What Happens if You Fall Behind on Child Support Payments?](https://familyally.com/blog/what-happens-if-you-fall-behind-on-child-support-payments/): If you fall behind on child support payments, you can face serious enforcement actions including wage garnishment, suspension of licenses, court contempt, and even... - [Legal Custody versus Physical Custody in Missouri?](https://familyally.com/blog/legal-custody-versus-physical-custody-in-missouri/): Legal custody and physical custody serve two very different roles in a parenting plan. Legal custody focuses on who will make important decisions about your child’s... - [Can Children Choose Which Parent to Live with in Missouri?](https://familyally.com/blog/can-children-choose-which-parent-to-live-with-in-missouri/): In Missouri, your child does not get to choose which parent to live with. The court will consider your child’s wishes as a factor, but there is no specific age where... - [Can Mediation Work If We Disagree on Everything?](https://familyally.com/blog/can-mediation-work-if-we-disagree-on-everything/): Mediation can work for you and your spouse or co-parent, even if you disagree on everything, as long as you are willing to listen to each other, to the neutral third... - [The Benefits of a Less Adversarial Divorce vs Litigation](https://familyally.com/blog/the-benefits-of-a-less-adversarial-divorce-vs-litigation/): Choosing a less adversarial divorce process like Mediation or a Collaborative Divorce will protect your family, reduce conflict, and help you build a cooperative... - [Your Attorney’s Role in a Collaborative Divorce](https://familyally.com/blog/your-attorneys-role-in-a-collaborative-divorce/): An attorney in a family law case serves two key roles for you: educator and advocate. They guide you through legal processes, explain options clearly, and protect... - [Creating a Parenting Plan that Will Work](https://familyally.com/blog/creating-a-parenting-plan-that-will-work/): A parenting plan outlines when each parent has the children, how decisions about their care will be made, and how to handle communication, child support, healthcare,... - [6 Steps in the Collaborative Divorce Process](https://familyally.com/blog/6-steps-in-the-collaborative-divorce-process/): In a Collaborative Divorce, you and your spouse choose a team of divorce professionals to help you resolve your divorce privately and respectfully. You each hire your... - [What Are the Types of Meetings in a Collaborative Divorce?](https://familyally.com/blog/what-are-the-types-of-meetings-in-a-collaborative-divorce/): In a Collaborative Divorce, you may participate in several types of meetings depending on your family’s needs. These can include full team meetings, financial... - [What Is the Hardest Stage of Divorce?](https://familyally.com/blog/what-is-the-hardest-stage-of-divorce/): The hardest stage of divorce is usually the decision to end the marriage and choose the divorce process you will use. While the final stage can bring strong emotions,... - [Prenups: More Than Planning for a Divorce](https://familyally.com/blog/prenups-more-than-planning-for-a-divorce/): A prenuptial agreement is not about planning for divorce. It is about planning for your marriage. When done thoughtfully and collaboratively, a prenup creates a space... - [How to Solve Problems in Divorce](https://familyally.com/blog/how-to-solve-problems-in-divorce/): Divorce brings many decisions, big and small. How those problems are handled can shape your costs, your stress level, and your family’s future. Mediation and... - [Staying Calm When Your Spouse Tries to Provoke You During Divorce](https://familyally.com/blog/staying-calm-when-your-spouse-tries-to-provoke-you/): When your spouse tries to provoke you during divorce, preparation and taking time before responding can make a difference. By slowing your response, staying future... - [Putting Your Children First in a Divorce](https://familyally.com/blog/putting-your-children-first-in-a-divorce/): Putting your children first during divorce supports their emotional and mental health and helps them build healthier relationships later in life. A cooperative... - [Why Marriages Fail](https://familyally.com/blog/why-marriages-fail/): Many marriages break down because communication slowly fades or never fully develops in the first place. When couples stop sharing information, expectations, and... - [4 Truths No One Tells You About Divorce](https://familyally.com/blog/4-truths-no-one-tells-you-about-divorce/): Divorce does not have to destroy your finances, your mental health, or your family relationships. Even when emotions run high, there are ways to resolve issues... - [Bringing Experts into the Mediation Process](https://familyally.com/blog/bringing-experts-into-the-mediation-process/): Experts can be helpful in Mediation when you and your spouse need support understanding the value of assets or need guidance on financial, property, or practical... - [What Happens Next if Mediation or Collaborative Divorce Doesn’t Work?](https://familyally.com/blog/what-happens-next-if-mediation-or-collaborative-divorce-doesnt-work/): If Mediation or Collaborative Divorce does not lead to an agreement, your case moves into the court system. A judge may require more Mediation, issue temporary... - [Why Staying Out of Court Saves You Money](https://familyally.com/blog/why-staying-out-of-court-saves-you-money/): Avoiding court during your divorce will save money because you reduce attorney time, avoid court-driven deadlines, and limit the conflict. Mediation and Collaborative... - [Who Makes Medical Decisions for Your Child After Divorce?](https://familyally.com/blog/who-makes-medical-decisions-for-your-child/): After your divorce, medical decisions for your child depend on whether you share joint legal custody or if one parent has sole legal custody. In Missouri, most... - [Why the Mediation Process Is a Better Option](https://familyally.com/blog/why-the-mediation-process-is-a-better-option/): Mediation gives you more control, privacy, and flexibility than going to court. It allows you and your spouse to create solutions that fit your family instead of... - [Can Child Custody Orders Be Changed?](https://familyally.com/blog/can-child-custody-orders-be-changed/): Child custody orders can be changed if there has been a change in circumstances and the new arrangement is in your child’s best interest. In Missouri, you can modify... - [What Issues in a Divorce Decree Can Be Modified and What Cannot](https://familyally.com/blog/what-issues-in-a-divorce-decree-can-be-modified-and-what-cannot/): In Missouri, you can modify most parts of your divorce decree that involve children or support if circumstances change. Property division, however, is permanent once... - [Divorce: Plan to Resolve Holiday Issues Early](https://familyally.com/blog/divorce-plan-to-resolve-holiday-issues-early/): Holiday parenting schedules work best when they are planned early. Waiting until the last minute can create stress for you, your children, and your attorney. Waiting... - [What Does Healthy Co-Parenting Look Like After a Divorce?](https://familyally.com/blog/what-does-healthy-co-parenting-look-like-after-a-divorce/): Healthy co-parenting means respecting your child’s other parent, focusing on solutions instead of conflict, keeping your attention on what lies ahead for your... - [The Power of Apology](https://familyally.com/blog/the-power-of-apology/): Offering a genuine apology during divorce can rebuild trust, soften conflict, and help both you and your spouse move toward resolution. In Mediation or Collaborative... - [What is the “Public Record” in Divorce?](https://familyally.com/blog/what-is-the-public-record-in-divorce/): Divorce filings in Missouri are part of the public record, but Mediation or Collaborative Divorce allows you to resolve issues privately while keeping personal... - [What to Expect in a Divorce Mediation](https://familyally.com/blog/what-to-expect-in-a-divorce-mediation/): Divorce Mediation is a private process where you and your spouse work with a neutral mediator to discuss every detail of your case, from custody to property division,... - [Why Are More Women Choosing to Divorce Later in Life?](https://familyally.com/blog/why-are-more-women-choosing-to-divorce-later-in-life/): More older women are choosing divorce later in life because they want independence, feel their concerns have gone unheard, or decide that after their children have... - [6 Things to Do ASAP After Your Divorce is Over](https://familyally.com/blog/6-things-to-do-asap-after-your-divorce-is-over/): After your divorce is final, there are important tasks to take care of right away, such as updating titles, changing beneficiaries, handling retirement accounts,... - [Does an Affair Matter in Divorce?](https://familyally.com/blog/does-an-affair-matter-in-divorce/): In Missouri, you don’t need to prove who was at fault to get divorced. If you or your spouse had an affair that led to the divorce that fact is may not be... - [Why You Should Have a Divorce Attorney](https://familyally.com/blog/why-you-should-have-a-divorce-attorney/): Even the simplest divorce can create costly mistakes if you go through it alone. A family law attorney will protect your rights, help you make sound decisions, and... - [Divorce and Sharing the Family Home](https://familyally.com/blog/divorce-and-sharing-the-family-home/): Some couples choose to live in the same home or rotate in and out, both during and even after their divorce. Many couples make this decision to maintain stability for... - [7 Ways that Divorce in Missouri Has Changed](https://familyally.com/blog/7-ways-that-divorce-in-missouri-has-changed/): Getting divorced in Missouri now offers more options than it did years ago. Mediation is often required, Collaborative Divorce is more widely available, and remote... - [We’ve Decided to Divorce, Now What?](https://familyally.com/blog/weve-decided-to-divorce-now-what/): After making the difficult decision to divorce, your next steps should include learning about your options, talking with experienced divorce attorneys, and thinking... - [Collaborative Divorce vs. Mediation: Which Is Best for You?](https://familyally.com/blog/collaborative-divorce-vs-mediation-which-is-best-for-you/): Both Collaborative Divorce and Mediation help you avoid court, but they offer different types of support. Mediation may work well if you and your spouse can... - [Cost of Litigation: Can You Afford NOT to Settle Your Divorce Out of Court?](https://familyally.com/blog/cost-of-litigation-can-you-afford-not-to-settle-your-divorce-out-of-court/): Court battles are costly, time-consuming, and emotionally draining with uncertain outcomes. An amicable divorce, resolved through Mediation or Collaborative Divorce... - [Gray Divorce: Why Mediation and Collaborative Divorce Are Better Divorce Options](https://familyally.com/blog/gray-divorce-why-mediation-and-collaborative-divorce-are-better-divorce-options/): For those divorcing after 50, Mediation and Collaborative Divorce offer a more thoughtful, flexible, and less stressful alternative to court. These approaches allow... - [Can You Be Friends After Divorce?](https://familyally.com/blog/can-you-be-friends-after-divorce/): How you divorce will shape if you can be friends afterward. Choosing an amicable process, such as Mediation or Collaborative Divorce for your divorce will foster... - [What Is a Divorce Settlement Agreement?](https://familyally.com/blog/what-is-a-divorce-settlement-agreement/): A divorce settlement agreement, also known as a marital settlement agreement or martial separation agreement, outlines how you and your spouse will divide property,... - [Boom or Bust: Does the Economy Affect Divorce Decisions?](https://familyally.com/blog/boom-or-bust-does-the-economy-affect-divorce-decisions/): The economy can influence many aspects of your divorce, from whether you decide to file, to how you divide assets, handle support, or even afford legal costs. A... - [What Makes the Best Divorce Lawyers Different](https://familyally.com/blog/what-makes-the-best-divorce-lawyers-different/): The best divorce lawyers work to keep your case focused and fair. They do not stir up unnecessary conflict or waste your money. They are upfront about the risks,... - [7 Things to Know About Divorce in Missouri](https://familyally.com/blog/7-things-to-know-about-divorce-in-missouri/): Divorce litigation in Missouri is expensive, stressful, and unpredictable. If you want more control, privacy, and peace of mind, consider an amicable divorce through... - [Divorce: What to Consider Before You Remarry](https://familyally.com/blog/divorce-what-to-consider-before-you-remarry/): If you have gone through a divorce, before you remarry, you should take time to evaluate how a new relationship could affect your children, financial obligations, and... - [Can I Change My Will During My Divorce?](https://familyally.com/blog/can-i-change-my-will-during-my-divorce/): When you are in the middle of a divorce, you may start thinking about changing your will or updating your estate plan. While it is possible to make some changes,... - [Divorce: Why Do I Need a QDRO?](https://familyally.com/blog/divorce-why-do-i-need-a-qdro/): When you’re finalizing your divorce, you may think everything is settled once the judge signs the agreement. But if you’re dividing retirement accounts, you’ll likely... - [Bankruptcy and Divorce: What to Know](https://familyally.com/blog/bankruptcy-and-divorce-what-to-know/): If you, your spouse, or both of you are in financial trouble, it is important to understand how bankruptcy might affect your divorce and what steps you need to take... - [Divorce: The Emotional and Financial Costs](https://familyally.com/blog/divorce-the-emotional-and-financial-costs/): You likely feel hurt, angry, or even betrayed during the process of your divorce; but beware your emotions can make the entire divorce process more expensive.... - [What Do You Have to Gain by Being Nice During Your Divorce?](https://familyally.com/blog/what-do-you-have-to-gain-by-being-nice-during-your-divorce/): Divorce can bring out strong emotions, but how you handle those feelings can make a big difference. You might feel angry or hurt, but treating your spouse with... - [Divorce: Finding the Best Outcome for You and Your Pet](https://familyally.com/blog/divorce-finding-the-best-outcome-for-you-and-your-pet/): When going through a divorce, deciding what happens to your pet is an emotional and complicated issue. While you may see your pet as a beloved family member, Missouri... - [Divorce: Why You Should Tell Your Lawyer Everything](https://familyally.com/blog/divorce-why-you-should-tell-your-lawyer-everything/): When you are going through a divorce, honesty with your lawyer is extremely important. If you hide information, even unintentionally, it can hurt your case. Your... - [What About the House?](https://familyally.com/blog/what-about-the-house/): When going through a divorce, one of the biggest questions you may face is, “What happens to the house?” Whether you’re worried about immediate decisions or long-term... - [How to Keep Your Divorce Private](https://familyally.com/blog/how-to-keep-your-divorce-private/): Divorce can feel like an invasion of your personal life, and it’s only natural to want to protect your privacy. While it’s not always easy to keep everything... - [The #1 Reason People Get Divorced](https://familyally.com/blog/the-1-reason-people-get-divorced/): While many people assume that infidelity, emotional distance, or parenting disagreements are the primary causes of divorce, the truth is that money plays a much... - [My Best Co-Parenting Advice](https://familyally.com/blog/my-best-co-parenting-advice/): When you and your co-parent choose Collaborative Divorce or Mediation instead of litigation, you set the tone for how you will handle parenting together. If you go... - [Gray Divorce: How It Differs from Other Divorces](https://familyally.com/blog/gray-divorce-how-it-differs-from-other-divorces/): Gray divorce refers to the separation of couples over the age of 50, often after decades of marriage. Unlike younger couples, you likely aren’t dealing with child... - [Prenups Are More Than Just Protecting Money](https://familyally.com/blog/prenups-are-more-than-just-protecting-money/): When you hear the word “prenup,” you might automatically think of money and protecting assets. While that’s certainly part of the conversation, a prenuptial agreement... - [St. Louis Collaborative Divorce Attorney, Jennifer Piper Featured On The Respectful Divorce Podcast](https://familyally.com/blog/st-louis-collaborative-divorce-attorney-jennifer-piper-featured-on-the-respectful-divorce-podcast/): St. Louis Collaborative Divorce Attorney Jennifer Piper was recently a guest featured on The Respectful Divorce podcast discussing the upcoming Divorce With Respect... - [How Is Property Divided in a Divorce in Missouri?](https://familyally.com/blog/how-is-property-divided-in-a-divorce-in-missouri/): When going through a divorce in Missouri, understanding how property is divided can be essential for planning your future. Missouri follows an equitable distribution... - [Avoiding the “F” Word (Fair) in Divorce](https://familyally.com/blog/avoiding-the-f-word-fair-in-divorce/): When you’re going through a divorce, it’s tempting to focus on what’s “fair.” But fair can mean something different to everyone and getting stuck on that idea can... - [Rebuilding After Divorce: Steps to Moving Forward with Your Life](https://familyally.com/blog/rebuilding-after-divorce-steps-to-moving-forward-with-your-life/): Divorce marks the end of one chapter, but it’s also the beginning of a new one. It’s natural to feel uncertain about the path forward, but with the right steps, you... - [Understanding the Impact of Divorce on Your Adult Children](https://familyally.com/blog/understanding-the-impact-of-divorce-on-your-adult-children/): When parents decide to divorce, it’s natural to be concerned about the impact on younger children, but adult children are also deeply affected by this decision that... - [My Best Divorce Advice](https://familyally.com/blog/my-best-divorce-advice/): If you have been considering divorce, you have probably been asking people you know for their advice. As a divorce professional, here is some of the best advice that... - [4 Financial Pitfalls to Avoid During Divorce](https://familyally.com/blog/4-financial-pitfalls-to-avoid-during-divorce/): Divorce brings financial challenges. Challenges that can cost you not only money but add to your stress and how long it takes to resolve your case. However, there are... - [Why Fighting in Divorce is the Wrong Approach](https://familyally.com/blog/why-fighting-in-divorce-is-the-wrong-approach/): It’s natural to feel frustrated during a divorce but turning it into a fight can lead to more challenges down the road. Disagreements and tensions are part of the... - [What is the Difference Between Mediation and Litigation?](https://familyally.com/blog/what-is-the-difference-between-mediation-and-litigation/): When resolving a divorce or legal conflict, it is important to understand how mediation and litigation differ. Each process has its unique approach to handling... - [Understanding Post-Marital and Separation Agreements](https://familyally.com/blog/understanding-post-marital-and-separation-agreements/): If you’re considering changes in your marriage, it can be helpful to understand your legal options. Post-marital (or postnuptial) agreements and separation agreements... - [Why Is January the Start of Divorce Season?](https://familyally.com/blog/why-is-january-the-start-of-divorce-season/): January is often considered the unofficial start of divorce season, and there’s a good reason for it. After months of holiday gatherings, family events, and the... - [How to Deal with Trust Issues During the Divorce Process](https://familyally.com/blog/how-to-deal-with-trust-issues-during-the-divorce-process/): During a divorce, trust can be hard to rebuild, especially if dishonesty has been involved. It’s normal to feel uncertain about what to believe or how to proceed.... - [What is a Postnuptial Agreement](https://familyally.com/blog/what-is-a-postnuptial-agreement/): A postnuptial agreement, or postnup, is a legal contract between you and your spouse that is entered into after your marriage. If you’re considering one,... - [What Does a Parenting Coordinator Do in a High-Conflict Divorce?](https://familyally.com/blog/what-does-a-parenting-coordinator-do-in-a-high-conflict-divorce/): In a high-conflict divorce, emotions run high which can make co-parenting extremely difficult. You might feel that you are constantly arguing with your ex-spouse over... - [Do I Need a Lawyer for Mediation?](https://familyally.com/blog/do-i-need-a-lawyer-for-mediation/): Mediation is designed to be a less adversarial process than going to court in a divorce, and many people wonder if involving a lawyer is necessary. While it’s not... - [Prenups: Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck Didn’t Have One – Why Should I?](https://familyally.com/blog/prenups-jennifer-lopez-and-ben-affleck-didnt-have-one-why-should-i/): When high-profile celebrities like Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck get married without a prenup, you might wonder, “If they didn’t need one, why should I?” The truth... - [Do’s and Don’ts on Communicating with Your Mediator](https://familyally.com/blog/dos-and-donts-on-communicating-with-your-mediator/): Mediation is a great way to settle family disputes, but how you communicate with your mediator plays a big role in the process. Here are some simple do’s and don’ts... - [How to Talk to Your Kids About Divorce](https://familyally.com/blog/how-to-talk-to-your-kids-about-divorce/): One of the toughest things that you will have to do in your divorce is to tell your kids. Talking to them about the changes that are coming can be overwhelming, but... - [Recommendations About Using Social Media During Your Divorce](https://familyally.com/blog/recommendations-about-using-social-media-during-your-divorce/): One of the best things you can do for yourself while going through a divorce is to minimize your social media activity. Anything you post online can potentially be... - [Collaborative Divorce: Advantages of Having a Communication Coach](https://familyally.com/blog/collaborative-divorce-advantages-of-having-a-communication-coach/): One of the primary causes of divorce is a breakdown in communication between spouses. You and your spouse can’t hear what the other is saying anymore. One of the... - [How Much Does Mediation Cost?](https://familyally.com/blog/how-much-does-mediation-cost/): When considering Mediation as an option for resolving your family law issues, one of the common questions is, “How much will Mediation cost?” The cost of Mediation... - [Divorce: How to Control Your Future](https://familyally.com/blog/divorce-how-to-control-your-future/): The thought that someone else making decisions about your life in your divorce can be overwhelming. However, there are ways to take control of your future during the... - [How to Choose the Right Attorney](https://familyally.com/blog/how-to-choose-the-right-attorney/): Choosing the right attorney can significantly impact the outcome of your case. When you are dealing with a family law matter, or any other legal issue, finding an... - [How Long Does Mediation Take?](https://familyally.com/blog/how-long-does-mediation-take/): One of the most common questions about Mediation is, “How long will this take?” There isn’t a simple answer. Mediation timelines can vary greatly depending on several... - [7 Common Reasons for Modifying Child Custody](https://familyally.com/blog/7-common-reasons-for-modifying-child-custody/): There are many reasons why you might need to modify an existing custody order to better suit the changing needs of your child and family. As life progresses, changes... - [How Long Does It Take To Modify Child Support?](https://familyally.com/blog/how-long-does-it-take-to-modify-child-support/): The process of modifying child support modification can be frustrating, especially if you are facing an urgent financial change. Understanding the timeline and what... - [Does Mediation Always Keep You Out of Court?](https://familyally.com/blog/does-mediation-always-keep-you-out-of-court/): Mediation is often seen as a peaceful alternative to a courtroom battle. But does it always keep you out of court? There can be some limitations in a mediation that... - [Understanding Mediation in a Divorce](https://familyally.com/blog/understanding-mediation-in-a-divorce/): Mediation is a process that can help you resolve disputes without going to court. It is especially useful in family law cases, like divorce or child custody, where... - [Common Divorce Fear: Making It Financially](https://familyally.com/blog/common-divorce-fear-making-it-financially/): Divorce brings a lot of changes. One common fear a common fear people may experience is regarding your financial future. Managing your finances on your own might seem... - [Common Divorce Fear: Divorce Will Harm My Children](https://familyally.com/blog/common-divorce-fear-divorce-will-harm-my-children/): One of the biggest fears you may have when considering divorce or separation from your partner is the impact it will have on your children. It is natural to worry... - [Your Fear Can Make Your Divorce or Custody Case More Expensive](https://familyally.com/blog/your-fear-can-make-your-divorce-or-custody-case-more-expensive/): Divorce and Custody cases have lots of emotions and uncertainties. One of the most significant factors that can unintentionally increase the cost of your divorce or... - [Common Divorce Fears: What Others Will Think](https://familyally.com/blog/common-divorce-fears-what-others-will-think/): Divorce is a significant life event that comes with a variety of emotions and challenges. One of the most common fears is the fear of what others will think. This can... - [What Is a Parenting Plan?](https://familyally.com/blog/what-is-a-parenting-plan/): Co-parenting after a divorce or separation can be complex, but a well-crafted parenting plan will provide the clarity and structure needed to make it work for the... - [What Is A Parenting Coordinator?](https://familyally.com/blog/what-is-a-parenting-coordinator/): Parenting after a divorce or separation can be an overwhelming task, especially when disagreements arise regarding children’s schedules, activities, or healthcare.... - [Why Does Mediation Work In A Divorce?](https://familyally.com/blog/why-does-mediation-work-in-a-divorce/): Are you looking for a way to resolve conflicts that addresses your needs and ensures a smoother path forward? Mediation might just be the answer you have been... - [8 Tips for Co-Parenting This Summer](https://familyally.com/blog/8-tips-for-co-parenting-this-summer/): As the temperatures rise and the school bells ring their final chime, summer heralds a season of change for co-parents. Whether you are a seasoned pro or new to the... - [Who Is Eligible For Collaborative Divorce and Who Is Not?](https://familyally.com/blog/who-is-eligible-for-collaborative-divorce-and-who-is-not/): Collaborative Divorce is an excellent option for many couples seeking to end their marriage amicably and efficiently. However, there may be some cases that are better... - [Divorce in the Age of Equal Parenting](https://familyally.com/blog/divorce-in-the-age-of-equal-parenting/): Divorce is a significant life event that can bring about many changes, especially when children are involved. In today’s world, the concept of equal parenting is... - [Can You Divorce Your Spouse While Pregnant in Missouri?](https://familyally.com/blog/can-you-divorce-your-spouse-while-pregnant-in-missouri/): Divorce is a complicated process, especially when there’s a baby on the way. If you’re in Missouri and find yourself in this situation, you might be wondering about... - [How To Communicate With Your Spouse During Divorce](https://familyally.com/blog/how-to-communicate-with-your-spouse-during-divorce/): Divorce is tough, but effective communication with your spouse can make the divorce process smoother. Here are six tips to help you communicate better during this... - [What Is The Kindest Way To Tell My Spouse I Want A Divorce?](https://familyally.com/blog/what-is-the-kindest-way-to-tell-my-spouse-i-want-a-divorce/): Breaking the news of divorce to your spouse is never easy. It’s a delicate conversation that requires sensitivity and respect for both parties involved. You might... - [What Makes a Divorce Complex?](https://familyally.com/blog/what-makes-a-divorce-complex/): Divorce can be challenging. From managing emotions to navigating legal matters, there are many aspects to consider. Let’s explore why divorce can be so complex.... - [6 Reason Not to Date While Going Through a Divorce](https://familyally.com/blog/6-reason-not-to-date-while-going-through-a-divorce/): So, you might be wondering, can you start dating while you’re in the middle of a divorce? Well, technically, you can. But let’s talk about why you might want to think... - [How Can I Keep My Divorce Private?](https://familyally.com/blog/how-can-i-keep-my-divorce-private/): Going through a divorce is never easy, but it’s crucial to protect your privacy throughout the process. Collaborative Divorce and Mediation provide ways to navigate... - [Co-Parenting After Divorce: A Guide for St. Louis Families](https://familyally.com/blog/co-parenting-after-divorce-a-guide-for-st-louis-families/): When children are involved in a divorce it can make the divorce process even more difficult. But once the legal proceedings are over, the real work of co-parenting... - [Family Ally: What’s In The Name Of Your Firm?](https://familyally.com/blog/family-ally-whats-in-the-name-of-your-firm/): When I set out to name my legal practice, I wanted something that truly reflected my values and the kind of support I aimed to provide to families. That’s why I... - [The Value of a Financial Neutral in Divorce](https://familyally.com/blog/the-value-of-a-financial-neutral-in-divorce/): Divorce can be tough, especially when it comes to sorting out money matters. That’s where a neutral financial professional comes in. They’re like a trusted guide,... - [Enforcement of Custody](https://familyally.com/blog/enforcement-of-custody/): Enforcing a custody order can seem overwhelming and frustrating. Still, it’s vital to understand its crucial role in preserving your family’s stability and... - [Enforcement of Child Support](https://familyally.com/blog/enforcement-of-child-support/): Enforcing a child support order can sometimes be a challenging and frustrating process. However, it is crucial to remember that this step is essential for the... - [Child Custody: A Guide to Modifications](https://familyally.com/blog/child-custody-a-guide-to-modifications/): Exploring adjustments to child custody or support arrangements can be complex, yet it’s a journey that you may need to undertake. If you’re contemplating a... - [Why I’m Participating in Divorce with Respect Week](https://familyally.com/blog/why-im-participating-in-divorce-with-respect-week/): Growing up, I witnessed firsthand the devastating effects of a contentious divorce. As a child of parents who engaged in bitter litigation, I experienced the... - [Making Changes: Modifying Child Support](https://familyally.com/blog/making-changes-modifying-child-support/): As life progresses, so do our circumstances, and sometimes these changes require modifications to child support agreements. Whether it’s due to changes in income,... - [Can Post-Divorce Relationships Be Preserved?](https://familyally.com/blog/can-post-divorce-relationships-be-preserved/): The end of a marriage doesn’t necessarily mark the end of a relationship, especially when children are involved. From school events to significant life milestones,... - [It’s Valentine’s Day and I Got Engaged: Do We Need a Prenup?](https://familyally.com/blog/its-valentines-day-and-i-got-engaged-do-we-need-a-prenup/): You’ve just marked a memorable Valentine’s Day by getting engaged. Amid the joy and excitement, a more practical question may arise: Is a prenup necessary? The answer... - [St. Louis Attorney Jennifer Piper Joins Divorce With Respect Week™ Initiative](https://familyally.com/blog/st-louis-attorney-jennifer-piper-joins-divorce-with-respect-week-initiative/): In collaboration with Divorce with Respect Week™, St. Louis Attorney and Family Ally, Jennifer Piper is joining divorce professionals nationwide to offer free... - [Navigating Paternity Issues](https://familyally.com/blog/navigating-paternity-issues/): Custody issues can be complex, especially when the parents of the child are unmarried. In this blog post, we’ll explore how these issues are addressed, from... - [St. Louis Contempt of Court Lawyer](https://familyally.com/blog/st-louis-contempt-of-court-lawyer/): When it comes to lack of compliance with a family court order, many remedies are available, the strongest of which is filing a motion to hold the non-compliant party... - [St. Louis Post-Divorce Disputes Lawyer](https://familyally.com/blog/st-louis-post-divorce-disputes-lawyer/): While a divorce decree is legally binding on both parties, it is not necessarily permanent. Some divorce terms can be modified after the dissolution of marriage,... - [St. Louis Paternity Lawyer](https://familyally.com/blog/st-louis-paternity-lawyer/): Establishing the paternity of a child is an important part of a father’s ability to exercise his parental rights. Only legally acknowledged fathers can exercise... - [St. Louis Child Support Lawyer](https://familyally.com/blog/st-louis-child-support-lawyer/): Child support is based on the legal theory that parents who do not live together should both support their children financially. It is a recurring payment made by one... - [St. Louis Child Support Enforcement Lawyer](https://familyally.com/blog/st-louis-child-support-enforcement-lawyer/): When you are responsible for the well-being of your child, every penny counts. Expenses can be considerable, and you should not be expected to handle the burden... - [St. Louis Child Support Modification Lawyer](https://familyally.com/blog/st-louis-child-support-modification-lawyer/): Missouri state law allows modifications to be made to existing child support arrangements in certain circumstances. If you are seeking to modify your current child... - [St. Louis Child Custody Modification Lawyer](https://familyally.com/blog/st-louis-child-custody-modification-lawyer/): While child custody orders are final once entered by a St. Louis family law court, specific changes in one or both parent’s circumstances could serve as a basis for a... - [St. Louis Child Custody Enforcement Lawyer](https://familyally.com/blog/st-louis-child-custody-enforcement-lawyer/): If a parent fails to comply with their child custody order, they could be held in contempt of court and face additional legal punishments through a family access... - [How Does Missouri Determine the Best Interest of a Child?](https://familyally.com/blog/how-does-missouri-determine-the-best-interest-of-a-child/): The term “Best Interests of a Child” is commonly used in child custody cases in Missouri. But how does the state determine what is in the best interest of your child?... - [5 Things To Know About Child Support In Missouri](https://familyally.com/blog/5-things-to-know-about-child-support-in-missouri/): If you find yourself wondering why you have to pay child support in Missouri, you’re not alone. This article is here to make things clearer for you. We’ll explore why... - [How Can I Have a Child-Centered Divorce?](https://familyally.com/blog/how-can-i-have-a-child-centered-divorce/): Going through a divorce is tough, especially when there are children involved. Choosing a child-centered divorce approach involves prioritizing your child’s needs... - [Why You Should Choose Collaborative Divorce](https://familyally.com/blog/why-you-should-choose-collaborative-divorce/): Collaborative Divorce is a divorce process that has gained popularity because it offers a more amicable and efficient way to navigate the divorce process versus the... - [You Realize Your Marriage is Over… Now What?](https://familyally.com/blog/you-realize-your-marriage-is-over-now-what/): In most marriages, couples find themselves facing challenging periods. For some those challenges lead you to believe that your relationship has reached its end.... - [How To Keep From Feeling Lost During Your Divorce](https://familyally.com/blog/how-to-keep-from-feeling-lost-during-your-divorce/): The divorce process can often leave you feeling overwhelmed and disconnected. However, Collaborative Divorce is a unique approach that goes beyond the traditional... - [Can I Get Divorced Without Going to Court?](https://familyally.com/blog/can-i-get-divorced-without-going-to-court/): When people think of divorce, they often envision contentious courtroom battles, but the reality is quite different. You can get a divorce without ever setting foot... - [6 Obstacles to Reaching a Divorce Settlement](https://familyally.com/blog/6-obstacles-to-reaching-a-divorce-settlement/): Reaching a settlement in a divorce case will always present some challenges along the way. There are some obstacles we often see that can be avoided if you know what... - [7 Tips for Divorce and the Holidays](https://familyally.com/blog/7-tips-for-divorce-and-the-holidays/): Divorce brings a whirlwind of emotions and challenges, and when the holiday season approaches, it can feel especially overwhelming. Whether you’re in the midst of a... - [5 Common Divorce Misconceptions](https://familyally.com/blog/5-common-divorce-misconceptions/): When it comes to divorce there can be a lot of misconceptions and misunderstandings about how the divorce process actually works. You may have heard stories from... - [Child Temporary Power of Attorney](https://familyally.com/blog/child-temporary-power-of-attorney/): When children are injured or become ill, their parents or legal guardians have the right to make decisions regarding their medical care. In some cases, permission... - [The Benefits of Hiring a Parenting Coordinator in Missouri: A Guide for Co-Parents](https://familyally.com/blog/the-benefits-of-hiring-a-parenting-coordinator-in-missouri-a-guide-for-co-parents/): As a co-parent, navigating the complexities of shared custody can be challenging. It is not uncommon for disagreements and conflicts to arise when making decisions... - [Get Ready for the Divorce: Practical Steps to Prepare Yourself Legally and Emotionally](https://familyally.com/blog/get-ready-for-the-divorce-practical-steps-to-prepare-yourself-legally-and-emotionally/): Divorce is never easy, but there are steps you can take to make the process go more smoothly. Knowing the legal processes involved and preparing yourself emotionally... - [How to Cope with Divorce: 8 Simple but Effective Strategies to Move On](https://familyally.com/blog/how-to-cope-with-divorce-8-simple-but-effective-strategies-to-move-on/): Divorce can be an intensely difficult experience. It is often accompanied by sadness, guilt, and anger. It is a painful transition that can leave many feeling... - [What is a Deposition and What is Its Purpose?](https://familyally.com/blog/what-is-a-deposition-and-what-is-its-purpose/): A deposition is where an Attorney will ask questions of the Witness under oath in front of a Court Reporter. There are several reasons for taking a deposition. These... - [Why is Collaborative Law a Better Choice for Your Family Going through a Divorce?](https://familyally.com/blog/why-is-collaborative-law-a-better-choice-for-your-family-going-through-a-divorce/): When you and your spouse choose the Collaborative law process to resolve your divorce, the focus is on the best interest of your family as a whole. When proceeding... - [Information for Survivors of Domestic Violence and How to Obtain an Order of Protection during COVID-19](https://familyally.com/blog/information-for-survivors-of-domestic-violence-and-how-to-obtain-an-order-of-protection-during-covid-19/): Restrictions aimed to stop the spread of the Coronavirus may be making domestic violence in homes more frequent, more severe, and more dangerous. We are dedicated to... - [Alternative Communications with Children during COVID-19](https://familyally.com/blog/alternative-communications-with-children-during-covid-19/): The current pandemic has made it difficult for some parents to spend time with their children. While the Courts have made it clear that they expect existing custody... - [Unemployment Benefits during COVID-19](https://familyally.com/blog/unemployment-benefits-during-covid-19/): Have you lost your job or were furloughed due to COVID-19? You are not alone. Millions of Americans have already filed for unemployment due to the coronavirus... - [Activities to Keep Children Educated and Entertained while Social Distancing during COVID-19](https://familyally.com/blog/activities-to-keep-children-educated-and-entertained-while-social-distancing-during-covid-19/): Now that Gov. Mike Parson has ordered all classrooms in Missouri to remain closed throughout the end of the school year, parents and caregivers are faced with the... - [Community Resources Available Providing Financial Assistance during the COVID-19 Pandemic](https://familyally.com/blog/community-resources-available-providing-financial-assistance-during-the-covid-19-pandemic/): With more than 17 million Americans filing for unemployment, and the numbers continuing to escalate daily, it is essential now, more than ever, to utilize all... - [How Does a Stay at Home Order, Coronavirus, or COVID-19 Affect the Exchange of Children between Parents?](https://familyally.com/blog/how-does-a-stay-at-home-order-coronavirus-or-covid-19-affect-the-exchange-of-children-between-parents/): The Association of Family and Conciliation Courts issued a joint statement with the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers titled, “7 Guidelines for Parents Who Are... - [How to Prepare for Your Divorce or Child Custody Consultation](https://familyally.com/blog/how-to-prepare-for-your-divorce-or-child-custody-consultation/): Our attorneys are often asked how to prepare for your divorce or child custody consult. While you are not required to bring anything to your consult, it can be... - [How to Change Your Name after Divorce](https://familyally.com/blog/how-to-change-your-name-after-divorce/): Many women are awarded their maiden or former name as part of a divorce decree, but how do they actually change it back? It isn’t as easy as you may think. Obtaining...